Jay Em Female Led Corporal Punishment Gallery 2
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Jay Em: The spanking drawings of Jay Em best* embody certain visions of female led relationships. The wife really his head of household, a dominant woman who controls her submissive man. And she’s a stern domestic disciplinarian who uses her hand, belt, strap, whip to insure his humility and obedience.
(I’m sure some would award the accolade to Barb.)
Jay Em Female Led Corporal Punishment Gallery 1
Jay Em Female Led Corporal Punishment Gallery 3
Mistress Wife / Slave Husband Contract
More Jay Em M/f art.
Be it known that this agreement (“Agreement”) is entered
into on the __st day of ___, 2000 between [FULL NAME OF
OWNER/WIFE] (herein referred to as “[Owner]”), and [FULL
NAME OF SLAVE/HUSBAND] (herein referred to as “[slave]”).
[Owner] and [slave] currently reside at [COMPLETE ADDRESS].
Whereas, this Agreement is to further reinforce and confirm
terms already specified under other existing agreements
already made between [Owner] and [slave]. Both [Owner] and
[slave] hereby state that they have consensually entered
into a non-traditional marital relationship and have
happily and successfully lived as Wife and husband, for
more than one year, under the terms and obligations as
generally described in this Agreement. Both [Owner] and
[slave] hereby emphasize that even though this Agreement
and other agreements may appear to those outside of the
relationship to provide great benefit to [Owner] and little
benefit to [slave], both have fully consented, of their own
free will, to the terms and obligations described in this
Agreement. Both [Owner] and [slave] hereby state that they
both strongly desire to continue this non-traditional
marital relationship and expect that this Agreement shall
be legally enforced in a court of law should that become
[Owner] and [slave] hereby agree to the following terms:
Property and Income Ownership: Any and all forms of
property, income and assets which have come into the
possession of either [Owner] or [slave] have become the
exclusive property of [Owner]. Any and all forms of
property, income and assets which is acquired by either
[Owner] or [slave] at any time in the future shall
immediately, upon receipt, become the the exclusive
property of [Owner]. [slave] currently owns nothing and has
surrendered any and all of his future ownership rights to
[Owner], for the reminder of his life.
Property and Income Use: [Owner], at Her option and
discretion, may permit [slave] the use of any of Her
property and income. Such permission may be modified or
revoked as [Owner] sees fit, at any time.
Obligation to Obey: [slave] shall unconditionally and
cheerfully obey every one of [Owner]’s commands and wishes
and shall, at all times, conduct himself within the rules
set forth by [Owner]. [slave] has surrendered all of his
personal freedoms to [Owner]. The only personal freedoms
permitted for [slave] are those which [Owner] may
graciously choose to allow him, at Her discretion.
Scope of Control: [slave] has surrendered to [Owner]
complete and unconditional control over all aspects of his
life including, but not limited to: Financial matters;
Personal matters; Professional matters; Social matters; And
legal matters (to the furthest extent permitted by law).
Punishment Actions: [Owner] has been given all rights to
punish [slave] in any way in which She desires, for any
reason that She feels is appropriate, at any time, and at
Her discretion. [Owner] shall not be required to
demonstrate to [slave] that any punishment action is
justified. [slave] shall to do his best to avoid punishment
by always striving to please and obey [Owner] and to always
strive to conduct himself within the rules set forth by
Her. [slave] shall cheerfully submit to any punishment
prescribed by [Owner] without hesitation.
Disputes or Disagreements: Any disputes or disagreements
that [slave] may have with [Owner] shall, by default,
automatically resolve to the favor of [Owner]’s position.
[Owner] may, at Her discretion, graciously allow [slave]’
position to be heard, but [Owner]’s final decisions shall
indeed be final and [slave] will cheerfully and
unconditionally abide by them.
Appeals Process: There exists no appeals process available
to [slave]. [slave] is bound to cheerfully and
unconditionally obey every one of [Owner]’s final
decisions, rules, commands, wishes, and desires.
Sexual Relationship: The only sexual pleasures [slave] is
permitted to enjoy shall be those which [Owner] chooses to
provide him or chooses to allow him to experience at Her
direction. [slave] shall keep [Owner]’s sexual needs and
desires as his highest priority and he will constantly
strive to please Her in every way. [slave] shall not
purposely provide himself physical sexual stimulation in
any form without [Owner]’s explicit permission to do so.
Monogamy and Chastity: [slave] shall remain completely and
faithfully monogamous to [Owner] in every sense of the
word. [Owner] may, at Her discretion, require [slave] to
wear a locked chastity device to ensure his monogamy and to
help him to develop further into a better and more pleasing
sexual partner for [Owner]’s benefit.
Control of Body: [Owner] has absolute control over
[slave]’ body in every way. This includes, but is not
limited to, [Owner]’s rights to, at Her discretion: Control
what enters his body (as in eating and drinking); Control
what leaves his body (as in urination and defecation);
Adorn his body (as in choice of clothing and jewelry); Mark
his body (as in tattoos, bruises, welts, cuts and
abrasions); Modify his body (as in piercings, punctures,
brands, cuttings and scarification); Cause sensations to
his body (as in the infliction of pleasure and pain); And
maintain his body (as in weight and health issues). [slave]
shall unhesitatingly make his body completely accessible to
[Owner], without restriction, at Her request, for any
purpose She desires.
Separation or Divorce: If a separation or divorce should
occur, [slave] shall remain completely bound, in every way,
by the terms of this and all other agreements made between
[Owner] and [slave]. [slave] has completely surrendered any
and all of his rights against [Owner], including any rights
to: Attempt to contest any such action taken by [Owner];
Seek alimony, property division or property ownership; Or
to seek personal freedoms of any kind for himself. Any and
all forms of future income or future property acquired by
[slave] shall immediately be turned over to [Owner] and
shall belong exclusively to Her. This may be accomplished,
at [Owner]’s discretion, through: Direct-deposit of
[slave]’s funds into Her accounts; Depositing all checks and
cash received by [slave] into Her accounts; Or by signing
over all checks received by [slave] to be payable only to
Her. [Owner] may then, at Her discretion, provide [slave]
with a small living allowance as She sees fit. If a
separation or divorce should occur, [slave] shall continue
to unconditionally and cheerfully obey every one of
[Owner]’s commands, wishes and rules just as if they were
not separated or divorced, for the rest of his life or
until [Owner] chooses to release him from this obligation.
[Owner] shall retain all of Her rights, in all forms, over
[slave] as She sees fit. Specifically, [Owner] shall retain
the right to direct [slave] in all aspects of his life, at
Her discretion, and [slave] shall not enter into a
relationship with another person without first obtaining
explicit permission from [Owner] to do so.
Transfer of Rights: [Owner] has the option of transferring
any and all of Her rights over [slave] to anyone of Her
choosing, at Her discretion. This may be done by [Owner] in
the form of either a temporary or a permanent assignment of
Her rights. [slave] shall be fully obligated to the person
designated by [Owner] in any way that She chooses to
obligate him. Should [Owner] become deceased before
transferring Her rights over [slave] to a designated
person, [slave] shall not enter into a close or intimate
relationship with another person for the rest of his life
and he shall continue to, at all times, conduct himself
according to the commands, wishes and rules that [Owner]
had previously specified for him to obey.
Consideration: In consideration for this Agreement,
[Owner] has already paid [slave] the sum of one dollar upon
the signing of the original Pre-Marital Agreement on [date]
and that this consideration applies to this
Agreement as well. [slave] wishes to state that further
non-monetary consideration has been very generously given
to him by [Owner] through his continuing opportunity to
have had the privilege to live his life within the terms of
what he considers to be an ideal marital relationship under
[Owner]’s very capable direction. [Owner] and [slave] fully
understand the nature of this Agreement, into which they
both have voluntarily and of their own free will entered,
without any form of undue duress, force, compulsion,
intimidation, pressure, persuasion or coercion from the
other party. [Owner] and [slave] feel that this
consideration is entirely fair and equitable to both
Enforcement: This Agreement shall be enforced with the
laws of the State of [state]. Both [Owner] and [slave]
acknowledge that they have had an opportunity to seek the
advice of legal counsel and that they are entering into
this Agreement voluntarily and of their own free will. This
Agreement was drafted by [slave], with the consent and
consultation of [Owner]. Neither party shall be entitled to
claim the benefit of ambiguity resulting from its drafting.
[slave] has specifically waived any and all of his rights
against [Owner] to invalidate this Agreement due to claims
of spouse abuse, enslavement (or for any such related
reason) and shall never attempt to bring legal action of
any kind against Her regarding such claims.
Default: If either party defaults in the performance of
any terms, provisions or obligations herein set forth, and
it becomes necessary to institute legal proceedings to
effectuate the performance of any provisions of this
agreement, then [slave] shall pay all expenses, including
attorney fees, incurred in connection with such enforcement
proceedings. [slave] shall continue to be obligated to the
terms of this Agreement during the time that any such legal
proceeding takes place until he is relieved from this
obligation by a court of law.
Termination of Agreement: This Agreement shall remain in
effect until it is revoked, rescinded, canceled or
terminated by [Owner] or until [slave] dies. Should [Owner]
exercise Her option to transfer Her rights under this
agreement to another person, [slave] shall be obligated to
the person designated by [Owner] until the designee
revokes, rescinds, cancels or terminates this Agreement or
until [slave] dies. [slave] has no rights whatsoever to
revoke, rescind, cancel or terminate this Agreement under
Changes or Modifications: This Agreement may be changed or
modified only by [Owner], at Her discretion. Should [Owner]
exercise Her option to transfer Her rights under this
Agreement to another person, only the person designated by
[Owner] may change or modify this Agreement. [slave] has no
rights whatsoever to change or modify this Agreement under
Understanding of Agreement: Each party fully understands
the terms of this Agreement and the terms represent and
constitute the entire understanding between them. Any
portion of this Agreement found to be legally invalid or
unenforceable shall not affect the remainder of this
Agreement. Each party has read this Agreement and finds it
to be in accordance with Her and his understanding and each
voluntarily affixes Her or his signature in the presence of
the witnesses indicated below.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this
Signed this ______ day of ____________________, 20____.
Witness [FULL NAME OF OWNER/WIFE]
Witness [FULL NAME OF SLAVE/HUSBAND]
This husband has arrived home after the time set by his very dominant wife. Her hairbrush will make his buttocks burn and sting. You would think living with a disciplinary Domme Wife would cure him of misdemeanors.
(I post this because it is probably my favorite Jay Em drawing. The husband’s facial expression is priceless.)
One of the methods for enhancing corporal punishment is to destroy an orgasm immediately after the male’s spanking.
Using one hand gently caress the sub male’s phallus. Arouse him to the point of erection and anticipation of pleasure without using sufficient pressure or speed to induce a climax.
With the other hand the woman massage the subject’s prostate gland – e.g., “milking” the sub male. This will cause the male to ejaculate involuntarily. His expectations aroused, then dashed will add disappointment and shame to the post-spanking physical pain.
Drawing by Jay Em.
In the town this Mistress Wife and submissive husband live in all female-led couples use the same woman doctor.
If a man says that he isn’t feeling well enough to go work or too tired to perform his chores his wife immediately takes him to the doctor’s office.
Mistress Physician can readily discern if the husband really has a medical problem.
And if he’s been eating forbidden foods, drinking beer or masturbating without permission. Acts that will make a man less obedient and submissive.
If the man is at fault she prescribes a week of three extra spankings a day. Hard spankings and mandatory heavy labor.
Her motto is A spanking a day makes the man obey. All of her patients agree.
See all the Jay Em Mistress Wife / Submissive Husband Spanking Art.
Learning to Disicipline Her Husband
There is a place where woman’s mastery of the male is unquestioned.
When a young woman has selected the male who will spend his life as an obedient and submissive slave husband she approaches an older woman. A mature dominant woman wise and experienced in the control and discipline of submales.
Often she is the young woman’s own mother or future step-mother. More affluent brides hire a professional consultant.
The professional Disciplinary Mistress teaches the young Mistress to be the nuances of F/m corporal punishment. Control of intensity and quality of punishment spankings.
With the consultant’s advice the young woman selects the male’s first chastity belt. Selects dresses, cosmetics and wigs for the sissificatiion of the groom. And if she is a sadist those special toys for evenings entertaining herself tormenting the helpless slave husband.
Female Led Corporal Spankophilia
Spanking fetishism also colloquially termed spankophilia is characterized by a person becoming sexually aroused by the giving or receiving of spankings, or both. It seems to be related to, but not identical with other fetishes such as domination/submission play, bondage, sadomasochism and pygophilia (buttocks fetishism).
Do you think that punishment has a place in a F/m love affair? Serious punishment or play?
Generally fetishism is defined as a pathological assignment of sexual fixation, fantasies or behaviors toward an inanimate object such as an item of clothing (underclothing, high-heeled shoes, etc.) or to non-genital body parts such as the feet, but the definition also includes circumstances where a person experiences arousal from participating in activities not normally considered to be sexual in nature, like spanking.
According to psychology practitioners, there is a degree of fetishistic arousal in most “normal” individuals. Fetishistic arousal is generally considered a problem only when it interferes with normal sexual or social functioning or where sexual arousal is impossible without the object of the fetish.
Spanking drawing © Alazar
While I have very limited experience with erotic spankings, I do find the concept very erotic and arousing. I have spanked two past vanilla female sexual partners both over-the-knee and in conjunction with “doggie style” sexual intercourse. Both of them later told me that they didn’t find the over-the-knee spankings particularly arousing but both did very much feel that it contributed a great deal to their arousal when experienced in conjunction with penetrative sex. From my perspective I did not find giving spankings to be arousing, beyond simply the act of touching their bare bottoms which is not surprising since I consider the female bottom to be the single most erotic female body part. Yet fantasizing about being spanked is something I do find very arousing. Since I do experience sexual arousal from any number of stimuli I would assume that spankophilia is a benign fetish for me since it is only one of many things that I find arousing. I have never received an erotic spanking but have spanked myself at the direction of a dominant woman and I did find that to be an arousing experience. I feel that for me personally, it was the domination/submission dynamics of the situations involved that was most responsible for the feelings of arousal since I am not at all very masochistic and do not generally seek out opportunities to experience pain.
There is an ongoing debate in psychology circles about why a person might enjoy and find the idea of being spanked to be arousing, either actually receiving a spanking or through fantasizing about it. Some believe it caused by the person receiving or witnessing spankings during childhood, especially around the age of puberty. This idea corresponds to classical psychology theories. According to Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, sexual deviations are developed in childhood. The basis of his theory was that children may cope with a painful or traumatic experience by “eroticizing” it. Interestingly enough, I recently read an article concerning a survey conducted in the UK where 35% of the respondents who identified themselves as persons who found spanking to be erotic and sexually arousing, stated that they had never been spanked or witnessed a spanking, which seems to indicate rather clearly, that the Freud’s theory doesn’t provide an all inclusive explanation.
Another theory is that some people find spanking to be arousing because of the fact that physical pain is known to cause an endorphin rush for some individuals which causes spanking to be a pleasant experience, comparable to the effects of certain drugs. If the person is spanked hard and frequently (resulting in frequent and intense endorphin rushes) they may become “addicted” to spankings. Over time they come to associate spankings with not only pleasant but erotic feelings. Again not all submissives are masochistic, and so this theory to has its inherent limitations.
Thus far we have considered only erotic spankings, spankings used for the purpose of sexual play. With regards to submissive men and female led relationships, there is also disciplinary spanking. As a submissive man I find the idea of being spanked by a dominant female partner to be a normal and beneficial part of a female led relationship. Like anyone else I am at time prone to make mistakes and need correction. I need to be held accountable and a spanking could provide that accountability. If I failed in some way towards her by say being inadvertently inconsiderate or disrespectful to her or by failing by design or neglect to perform some assigned task, then I feel I would be most deserving of a spanking which would be a very practical means of making amends. As the dominant partner, she certainly would have the right to choose the kind of amends based on the nature of my offense that she felt best addressed and corrected the problem and if she chose to spank me over say simply accepting my heartfelt and sincere apology, then of course I would willingly submit to her decision. While this kind of spanking would not be enjoyable or pleasurable I doubt it would be sexually arousing either. In fact I have read numerous accounts from dominant women who regularly spank their submissive male partners in which all agreed, when done correctly, it is not at all a pleasant experience for the man and is very effective in eliminating the offending behaviors that precipitated the spankings.
I think disciplinary spanking appeals to me with respect to female led relationships on two levels. First, submitting to being spanked would provide a very strong image of her dominance over me and my submission to her. Second, being spanked would allow me to pay for my transgression in a tangible way which would make me feel better about the situation and would allow us to put the affront behind us and in the past so that we could go forward with my behavior appropriately modified. I would also love to experience the erotic variety as well, just to learn what the effects were with regard to arousal.
(From a defunct blog written by a man who used the name Joe.)