Comments on: Woman Worship as Idealism http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism Femdom Psychology, Philosophy, Female Domination, Male Submission Theory & Practice Mon, 21 May 2012 03:18:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Shadowlady http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism#comment-1190 Shadowlady Sun, 10 Jul 2011 11:03:44 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/?p=325#comment-1190 There is and always will be e difference between the ideal and real life. Nothing and nobody is ideal, that is why people worship and idealise the unattainable. But when people go too far and wish to have the unattainable and nothing else will do, they fail to see their own part in the play and become unhappy. Nothing wrong with having ideals or trying to reach for them, but enjoy every step towards the ideal, not just reaching the end goal, As chances are the ideal was not what you thought it would be in th first place There is and always will be e difference between the ideal and real life. Nothing and nobody is ideal, that is why people worship and idealise the unattainable. But when people go too far and wish to have the unattainable and nothing else will do, they fail to see their own part in the play and become unhappy.
Nothing wrong with having ideals or trying to reach for them, but enjoy every step towards the ideal, not just reaching the end goal, As chances are the ideal was not what you thought it would be in th first place

]]> By: tacslave http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism#comment-1189 tacslave Tue, 26 May 2009 00:12:46 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/?p=325#comment-1189 Their is no requirement for worship to equate to control! All relationships involve changes in people by definition and I think you miss the point that Female worship is about empowerment of the Women, not fetishization. Naturally all relationships in their early stages require a degree of effort to find a common ground but the particular nature of a relationship only speaks to the sustainability of that relationship... not all relationships. Their is no need to embrace topping from the bottom as integral to Femdom. The end state should be one where the Female isnt dictated to at 'any' level by the submale. Their is no requirement for worship to equate to control! All relationships involve changes in people by definition and I think you miss the point that Female worship is about empowerment of the Women, not fetishization. Naturally all relationships in their early stages require a degree of effort to find a common ground but the particular nature of a relationship only speaks to the sustainability of that relationship… not all relationships.

Their is no need to embrace topping from the bottom as integral to Femdom. The end state should be one where the Female isnt dictated to at ‘any’ level by the submale.

]]> By: Lady Julia http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism#comment-1188 Lady Julia Mon, 11 May 2009 20:10:40 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/?p=325#comment-1188 <i>Women like to be seen as who they are, not as men fantasize them to be.</i> Truer words were never written, at least as far as I am concerned. I don't mind that men fantasize about me or even that they have a fantasized version of me - as long as they realize that's what it is. I receive quite a few nasty emails from people who visit my site or read my blog. Not tons, but far more than what I would have expected. For the longest time I kept asking myself why someone would go out of their way to be so obnoxious to me. Not just one someone, but several. Finally, one of my friends remarked that he thought it was because I dare to write the truth about myself and that truth disturbs a few peoples' fantasized versions of me. I find that incredibly sad. I also think this idealization of the Domme is why a lot of Femdom relationships fail. There's no way most of us could live up to the expectations of some. Women like to be seen as who they are, not as men fantasize them to be.

Truer words were never written, at least as far as I am concerned. I don’t mind that men fantasize about me or even that they have a fantasized version of me – as long as they realize that’s what it is.

I receive quite a few nasty emails from people who visit my site or read my blog. Not tons, but far more than what I would have expected. For the longest time I kept asking myself why someone would go out of their way to be so obnoxious to me. Not just one someone, but several. Finally, one of my friends remarked that he thought it was because I dare to write the truth about myself and that truth disturbs a few peoples’ fantasized versions of me. I find that incredibly sad.

I also think this idealization of the Domme is why a lot of Femdom relationships fail. There’s no way most of us could live up to the expectations of some.

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