Comments on: The Woman is Always Right http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right Female dominance, male submission without the stereotypes Tue, 31 Jan 2012 02:03:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: hurmm http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-524 hurmm Sat, 13 Nov 2010 22:25:33 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-524 It sounds like a fun fantasy for a girl to tell you she is always right and you have to go along with it, but it would definitely be impractical. It’s probably best to try and arrive at some sort of understanding that it is okay to have a different opinion and still allow yourself the fun of being always correct. The language in this situation can be tricky. It might be best to have a tag in the language that lets you have a different opinion and be understood that you really think that the girl should look at things from a different perspective. It might beneficial to be able to playfully protest "but I was going to go to this thing with my buddy" and your girl can say "I think it's best if you stay in, and I know what's best for you don't I". Or, alternately, you could add a cod word that lets her know you're being serious. You could just say "I was going to go to this thing with my buddy. Serious." and then she could either say "well I have pretty important plans for us that night", or, she could ask for a further discussion of which option is more important. Or, she could just say "that's okay, I didn't have anything really important going on for us this evening anyway". In any case, putting the little tag of "serious" on the end of what your saying gives you the option of having fun with a playful protest that you know you'll lose, or making a legit argument for why you think you have a genuine insight or protest. So, "I really have important plans with my buddy" can be playful, and "I really have important plans with my buddy. serious" can let her know that you feel like it's more important to go out and continue with your plans. Having the option of putting the serious tag on something can give you a lot more room to express your opinion playfully or to have it understood that you're making what you feel is an important argument. I bring this up because I've personally had issues in the past with making known the difference between a playful plea for mercy and something more genuine. It gives you the opportunity to communicate more clearly. Naturally, in any relationship there are going to be times when you want to express an opinion with varying degrees of feeling. I'm afraid that in a female led relationship the male might be discouraged from lightly expressing opinions, such as "My buddy and I have plans this evening." and might find it difficult to make it known when he feels very serious about something "My buddy and I have plans this evening. Serious." The Serious tag gives the male the ability to comfortably express opinions he doesn't freely express opinions he doesn't feel strongly about, and to make it known when he has serious opinions or objections. This allows for fun "the woman is always right" play, while allowing for the more realistic "the woman is sometimes mistaken or simply doesn't feel strongly about the issue" practicalities of life on planet earth. It sounds like a fun fantasy for a girl to tell you she is always right and you have to go along with it, but it would definitely be impractical.

It’s probably best to try and arrive at some sort of understanding that it is okay to have a different opinion and still allow yourself the fun of being always correct.

The language in this situation can be tricky. It might be best to have a tag in the language that lets you have a different opinion and be understood that you really think that the girl should look at things from a different perspective.

It might beneficial to be able to playfully protest “but I was going to go to this thing with my buddy” and your girl can say “I think it’s best if you stay in, and I know what’s best for you don’t I”. Or, alternately, you could add a cod word that lets her know you’re being serious. You could just say “I was going to go to this thing with my buddy. Serious.” and then she could either say “well I have pretty important plans for us that night”, or, she could ask for a further discussion of which option is more important. Or, she could just say “that’s okay, I didn’t have anything really important going on for us this evening anyway”.

In any case, putting the little tag of “serious” on the end of what your saying gives you the option of having fun with a playful protest that you know you’ll lose, or making a legit argument for why you think you have a genuine insight or protest.

So, “I really have important plans with my buddy” can be playful, and “I really have important plans with my buddy. serious” can let her know that you feel like it’s more important to go out and continue with your plans.

Having the option of putting the serious tag on something can give you a lot more room to express your opinion playfully or to have it understood that you’re making what you feel is an important argument.

I bring this up because I’ve personally had issues in the past with making known the difference between a playful plea for mercy and something more genuine. It gives you the opportunity to communicate more clearly. Naturally, in any relationship there are going to be times when you want to express an opinion with varying degrees of feeling. I’m afraid that in a female led relationship the male might be discouraged from lightly expressing opinions, such as “My buddy and I have plans this evening.” and might find it difficult to make it known when he feels very serious about something “My buddy and I have plans this evening. Serious.”

The Serious tag gives the male the ability to comfortably express opinions he doesn’t freely express opinions he doesn’t feel strongly about, and to make it known when he has serious opinions or objections. This allows for fun “the woman is always right” play, while allowing for the more realistic “the woman is sometimes mistaken or simply doesn’t feel strongly about the issue” practicalities of life on planet earth.

]]> By: hurmm http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-523 hurmm Sat, 13 Nov 2010 22:04:31 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-523 It sounds like a fun fantasy for a girl to tell you she is always right and you have to go along with it, but it would definitely be impractical. It's probably best to try and arrive at some sort of understanding that it is okay to have a different opinion and still allow yourself the fun of being always correct. The language in this situation can be tricky. It might be best to have a tag in the language that lets you have a different opinion and be understood that you really think that the girl should look at things from a different perspective. It might be It sounds like a fun fantasy for a girl to tell you she is always right and you have to go along with it, but it would definitely be impractical.

It’s probably best to try and arrive at some sort of understanding that it is okay to have a different opinion and still allow yourself the fun of being always correct.

The language in this situation can be tricky. It might be best to have a tag in the language that lets you have a different opinion and be understood that you really think that the girl should look at things from a different perspective.

It might be

]]> By: Shadowlady http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-522 Shadowlady Sat, 13 Nov 2010 09:08:31 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-522 I am not always right and I would hate for my boy even to consider me as such. He knows that I am too only human. In a case like the above I would have expected him to cancel if he felt our/my plans were better or more important, otherwise not. However I would hope he would learn his lesson and check with me first in future. I am not always right and I would hate for my boy even to consider me as such. He knows that I am too only human.
In a case like the above I would have expected him to cancel if he felt our/my plans were better or more important, otherwise not. However I would hope he would learn his lesson and check with me first in future.

]]> By: Chris http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-521 Chris Fri, 13 Feb 2009 01:20:49 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-521 I think the male simply gets pleasure from obeying the wife/girlfriend. It's not a question of "right" or "wisdon", but merely of submissive pleasure, where the male enjoys the idee that the least important thing to the female is more important than the most important thing to the male. I find that incredibly exciting, as a submissive male, as an inherent aspect of a slavery relationship. It has nothing to do with right and wrong, or wisdon. It's just incredible pleasure. Males and females are equally wise, and neither gender is supreme, generally, but in a relationship, a submissive male has no interest in equality, or fairness. He wants exactly the opposite, however he characterizes it. He obtains far more pleasure from giving up his golf at her whim than from playing golf, since he so loves being subordinate to his wife. Women should clearly understand that. I think the male simply gets pleasure from obeying the wife/girlfriend. It’s not a question of “right” or “wisdon”, but merely of submissive pleasure, where the male enjoys the idee that the least important thing to the female is more important than the most important thing to the male. I find that incredibly exciting, as a submissive male, as an inherent aspect of a slavery relationship. It has nothing to do with right and wrong, or wisdon. It’s just incredible pleasure. Males and females are equally wise, and neither gender is supreme, generally, but in a relationship, a submissive male has no interest in equality, or fairness. He wants exactly the opposite, however he characterizes it. He obtains far more pleasure from giving up his golf at her whim than from playing golf, since he so loves being subordinate to his wife. Women should clearly understand that.

]]> By: femsup http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-520 femsup Mon, 04 Aug 2008 01:39:16 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-520 I think it was from Her Househusband Life and he wanted to be with a golfer golfing.The freind a male was not the most repsonsible and would posibly corrupt him and have a bad influence on him. So She was right if he wants to accept that She knows best what is good from him and wants to stop this other irrespnsible male from ruining both his and Her life. I think it was from Her Househusband Life and he wanted to be with a golfer golfing.The freind a male was not the most repsonsible and would posibly corrupt him and have a bad influence on him.
So She was right if he wants to accept that She knows best what is good from him and wants to stop this other irrespnsible male from ruining both his and Her life.

]]> By: Anonymous http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-519 Anonymous Mon, 28 Apr 2008 10:49:35 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-519 A wise woman you are, Dev. One of the keys to the success of the relationship between Mrs. Mule and me is that we fight well. There is nothing wrong with confrontation. We respect each other and we come to an agreeable conclusion. There is no "right" or "wrong." However, there are times when one of our opinions doesn't make sense. We are both willing to acknowledge this fact. It's easy to admit when you are "wrong" when the other side doesn't gloat over it. We get over it and on with it. We have too many other good things going on in our lives to fixate on what we had in the past disagreed on. So Mrs. Mule is never wrong. We agree to do what she wants to do, and that is often what I want to do. A wise woman you are, Dev.

One of the keys to the success of the relationship between Mrs. Mule and me is that we fight well. There is nothing wrong with confrontation. We respect each other and we come to an agreeable conclusion.

There is no “right” or “wrong.” However, there are times when one of our opinions doesn’t make sense. We are both willing to acknowledge this fact. It’s easy to admit when you are “wrong” when the other side doesn’t gloat over it. We get over it and on with it. We have too many other good things going on in our lives to fixate on what we had in the past disagreed on.

So Mrs. Mule is never wrong. We agree to do what she wants to do, and that is often what I want to do.

]]> By: Dev http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-518 Dev Sun, 10 Feb 2008 22:11:47 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-518 It's really important to me that my slave boyfriend argues with me when he thinks I'm wrong. And he does. We both acknowledge that, within his limits, I can choose to have my decision prevail even if he does think I'm wrong, but so far it's never come to this. And I want to keep learning and growing by being challenged. It’s really important to me that my slave boyfriend argues with me when he thinks I’m wrong. And he does. We both acknowledge that, within his limits, I can choose to have my decision prevail even if he does think I’m wrong, but so far it’s never come to this. And I want to keep learning and growing by being challenged.

]]> By: maymay http://femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right#comment-517 maymay Sun, 10 Feb 2008 05:59:58 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/the-woman-is-always-right/#comment-517 A lot of this "rightness" reeks of righteousness. Hmm. I wonder why…? A lot of this “rightness” reeks of righteousness. Hmm. I wonder why…?

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