Comments on: The Pleasure of Pleasing http://femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/the-pleasure-of-pleasing Female dominance, male submission without the stereotypes Tue, 31 Jan 2012 02:03:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Shadowlady http://femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/the-pleasure-of-pleasing#comment-370 Shadowlady Sun, 10 Jul 2011 10:53:31 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/the-pleasure-of-pleasing/#comment-370 In our society there seems to be a negative slant on wanting to serve. Yet we are generally all people that like to be approached in stores and in customers service as if we were the queen and king of Shangri-la. Something odd in that. To serve and wishing to be pleased are two sides of the coin that work together very very well, as long as both are sincere and devoid of entitlement and (unless in play) haughtiness. For one that truly loves to serve the service gives so much pleasure and is rewarding if they see how their service is received well. Seeing my boy light up if his service is appreciated is a reward for me for wanting that service. It takes two to do the tango of service, but it is magic when the it is performed well. In our society there seems to be a negative slant on wanting to serve. Yet we are generally all people that like to be approached in stores and in customers service as if we were the queen and king of Shangri-la. Something odd in that.
To serve and wishing to be pleased are two sides of the coin that work together very very well, as long as both are sincere and devoid of entitlement and (unless in play) haughtiness. For one that truly loves to serve the service gives so much pleasure and is rewarding if they see how their service is received well. Seeing my boy light up if his service is appreciated is a reward for me for wanting that service.
It takes two to do the tango of service, but it is magic when the it is performed well.

]]> By: Mule http://femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/the-pleasure-of-pleasing#comment-369 Mule Sat, 17 May 2008 03:47:33 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/the-pleasure-of-pleasing/#comment-369 I started life as a submissive at about age 5 or 6. I have no idea why I was wired this way. As I've gotten older, I've drifted away from wanting to be dominated to wanting to serve. Service pervades my entire life. I am very successful in the business world, not through ruthless domination, but rather though serving those who work for me. It's amazing what people can do when you give them what they need to do the job. Then there is Mrs. Mule. I love her immensely of course I like to see her experience pleasure. If I can be the supplier of that pleasure, so much the better. Yeah, there is a lot in it for me. I started life as a submissive at about age 5 or 6. I have no idea why I was wired this way.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve drifted away from wanting to be dominated to wanting to serve.

Service pervades my entire life. I am very successful in the business world, not through ruthless domination, but rather though serving those who work for me. It’s amazing what people can do when you give them what they need to do the job.

Then there is Mrs. Mule. I love her immensely of course I like to see her experience pleasure. If I can be the supplier of that pleasure, so much the better. Yeah, there is a lot in it for me.

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