Loving female authority?
What if we call it loving male submission?*
You say “But that is what I’ve always wanted to offer.”
Is it? Do you keep the loving part in your mind and what being a lover and loving someone entails? Do you never get so lost in images of male surrender that you forget the total equation, the whole picture?
Sure, some of you think – at least believe you think – that you want a woman to treat you like trash? But do you really expect her to be a garbage collector?
* Or female submission: this gender stuff can be a pain.
Originally posted 2008-05-06 05:52:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Our relationship is more about love and my Wife being Head of the Household than it is about my total surrender to her in the normally thought of kinky way. The only bondage She regularly exercises on me is me being in my CB3000. She has spanked me about 30 times our whole 10 year marriage and we play bondage games about once every two months. However, She does make all the decisions, has complete control over our finances (yes, my paycheck is direct deposited to Her account) and everything that can be in Her name is. i offer advice, but never argue with Her. Since She stays at home, She does do chores around the house, but when i am home i do everything else. She receives lots foot rubs, back rubs, messages and of course oral services 3-5 times a day. We are totally in love and devoted to each other in the traditional sense, but me more in the FLR sense.
Yeah, as if that’s not the “normally thought of kinky way” for a so-called Female Led Relationship to be.
I think it takes a strong man- truly strong to let go enough and let his wife or lover take over. Lots of trust involved there too so there needs to be constant communication.
Is there any other kind of submission? I love and trust Mrs. Mule so much that I could do nothing but submit to her.
Femdom Leah said it with such wisdom, a man must have a very strong personality to be able to deal with a negotiated female-led-marriage (FLM). By this I am not talking about those wimpy husbands that are henpecked by shrew type wives, they too are female-led but are effectively non consensual unlike those that are negotiated and entered consciously and willingly.
I wouldn’t call our FLM as an erotic arrangement, although it does lend itself to our cuckolding lifestyle, which is very erotic, it has much more to do with a system we have devised that allows my wife to realise her deep desire to be the complete leader in her relationship with me.
Saying that, it was her strong personality that first attracted me to her and every day that she practices her leadership role reinforces my complete besottedness in her.