As I’m documenting elsewhere I’m currently semi-engaged in a tentative search for a local top (my prior relationship ended last fall).
I was wondering if any of you have used CollarMe, Craigslist, Alt. Bondage and the like to find a dominant or submissive playmate or life partner.
What luck did you have?
I’m sure you have stories sad and bad – any funny ones?
Originally posted 2008-02-25 07:14:32. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Yes to all of them…and I’ve had no luck on any. I have made some friends though but nothing more than friendship.
So that can’t be all that bad.
There was a time…for more than a year, that I would spend 4 or 5 hours per night emailing, writing posts, profiles, CL posts…you name it.
More than 20 hours a week. and still didn’t find anyone. I stopped because it was depressing me. Now I meet the same number by not doing it.
First of all, I have Mrs. Mule, so I’m not looking.
I met Mrs. Mule at a High School dance and have essentially been out of the game since then. I wouldn’t know where to meet a woman now.
Although I’m not looking, doesn’t mean I don’t find. I’ve met a number of dominant women on line on venues other than boards.
I post. I write stories. I have a web site. All of these have “attracted” women to me. All platonic and totally electronic with a couple exceptions. I actually wound up meeting Ms. Amity on line. I also met, in real life, several other people from webland.
Ms. Amity and I are friends and now-and-again business partners. Mrs. Mule also knows her and we (spouses included) occasionally engage in vanilla activities.