Comments on: Female Led Blogging http://femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/female-led-blogging Female dominance, male submission without the stereotypes Tue, 31 Jan 2012 02:03:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Shadowlady http://femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/female-led-blogging#comment-586 Shadowlady Sun, 10 Jul 2011 10:47:33 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/loving-female-authority/female-led-blogging/#comment-586 Both my boy and I have a blog. Apart form writing and sharing what happens it is for him a way of expressing his wishes and dreams, without feeling like he is demanding anything or TFTB. He knows I read all of it and that I use it to incorporate things sometimes, but always when he does not expect it. It is a treasure trove to me for ideas, some more realistic than others. My boy also knows things never happen the way he dreamed them up. Those are in his "Careful what you wish for" page. For me it is a way of reflection, contemplation and keeping track of what we are and have been doing. Not all of my blog is public. Some parts are just between me and the boy. So all in all the blogs end up being a tool of communication between us. Stuff that we can discuss when we are ready for it and not feel as if we have to talk about us and the kink always. Apart from that we are both active in fora, only very few which we both read and even less where we both participate. Control is one thing, micro-managing something completely different. Both my boy and I have a blog. Apart form writing and sharing what happens it is for him a way of expressing his wishes and dreams, without feeling like he is demanding anything or TFTB. He knows I read all of it and that I use it to incorporate things sometimes, but always when he does not expect it. It is a treasure trove to me for ideas, some more realistic than others.
My boy also knows things never happen the way he dreamed them up. Those are in his “Careful what you wish for” page.

For me it is a way of reflection, contemplation and keeping track of what we are and have been doing. Not all of my blog is public. Some parts are just between me and the boy. So all in all the blogs end up being a tool of communication between us. Stuff that we can discuss when we are ready for it and not feel as if we have to talk about us and the kink always.

Apart from that we are both active in fora, only very few which we both read and even less where we both participate. Control is one thing, micro-managing something completely different.

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