Elsewhere I’ve written about both why I think it is often a good idea for people – particularly sunmissive men – to consider starting (and keeping) a blog about their desire for a female led relationship and what and how they should post to their blog..
How many of you I wonder have started and possible even continue to keep a blog focusing on your needs, fantasies and desires as a submissive male?
Is it (was it):
- Enjoyable
- Too Demanding
- Boring
- Helpful
If you haven’t but felt you’d like to or should, what would finally motivate you to act?
More advice about kinky bloging here and here.
Originally posted 2008-03-11 23:00:17. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Both my boy and I have a blog. Apart form writing and sharing what happens it is for him a way of expressing his wishes and dreams, without feeling like he is demanding anything or TFTB. He knows I read all of it and that I use it to incorporate things sometimes, but always when he does not expect it. It is a treasure trove to me for ideas, some more realistic than others.
My boy also knows things never happen the way he dreamed them up. Those are in his “Careful what you wish for” page.
For me it is a way of reflection, contemplation and keeping track of what we are and have been doing. Not all of my blog is public. Some parts are just between me and the boy. So all in all the blogs end up being a tool of communication between us. Stuff that we can discuss when we are ready for it and not feel as if we have to talk about us and the kink always.
Apart from that we are both active in fora, only very few which we both read and even less where we both participate. Control is one thing, micro-managing something completely different.