Blogs written by real dominant and sadistic women and not those written by horny men in psychic drag consistently repeat a preference for strong men.
Evolutionary forces gave women a preference for strong men. At least strong in mind and heart.
And it is a strong man who is valued most when he kneels.
Don’t think submission makes weakness appealing. Turning yourself into a weakness may cause her to really despise: it won’t just be play.
That is another way you can lose her.
Originally posted 2007-12-20 13:03:22. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Total agreement. I absolutely get something out of it. Some just “regular” pleasure and part sexual pleasure.
I don’t entirely agree. I do think that some malesubs take weakness in every way much too far. Still, there’s usually someone of whatever taste somewhere–it means that while it is not impossible for that sub to find a domme, it is harder than it is for other malesubs.
Aside from those subs, I find a little weakness can be attractive. Certainly even a gentle, nervous type should be at least as physically strong as I usually am. And while those traits are attractive in my view, if they’re present in excess it makes it impossible to actually do anything with them in the way that I want to–like sculpting with overly wet clay. But I don’t want single mild mannered subs, who may already feel lonely, to have to think that there’s yet another impossible stroke against them. Macho men subs have appeal, but so do the gentle ones. (Just not, to my taste, the downright feeble ones.)