Frankly, some of the dommes that I saw on the site were lovely, but it never really appealed to me. It always seemed too stern, too detached and for me I prefer the idea that the woman I am serving likes me, regardless of the amount of tormetnt I might endure. To be coldly punished by someone who professes to despise me holds no allure.

Still, I know it’s about more than that; it’s about the whole package, the fantasy. That’s what they’re selling. They’re creating a temporary world for their customers that doesn’t actually exist, sort of like Disneyland. The real world disappears for a while, replaced by this new world. It’s a giant role-play. But that particular role-play isn’t really my groove; I prefer loving bdsm, not the arrogant-mean-bitch-who-is-always-right style.