You are exactly right! You create a conflict within the mind of Your slave, between obedience to its Owner’s commands and the necessary course of nature. Then when it cannot obey You, You take Your pleasure in punishing Your disobedient slave — even though You and it both know that it had no choice in the matter and failure was Your intention for it all along.

This just makes the punishment all the more delightful for Your slave as well as Yourself, Gracious and Cruel Goddess.

As for Jeffy’s impertinent question (“you will find out, dog, once you submit to Me!”Mistress Sadiste would probably reply), if Divine Mistress Sadiste chooses to allow Her unworthy slave to penetrate Her, it will lick Her precious altar clean while She whips it without mercy. If it kneels at Her feet during the exercise, She will let it spurt on Her boots, then flog it as it cleans and polishes the with its tongue (or licks its filthy cum from the soles of Her boots after She steps in the mess on Her floor). The puny little disobedient organ will be soundly flogged and imprisoned for a long sentence, the impudent balls kicked until the slave attached to them writhes in agony on the floor. Then it will grovel across the floor, crawling on its face and belly, to lick Her feet again in apologetic gratitude for the punishment.

How’s that for starters?

I know she is right and i would not want it any other way, and i know i love her much more for it.

She doe allow me a pleasurable or full orgasm twice a year. Once on my birthday and once on our anniversary.

just my two cents worth

Clear methods of ruining are there.

But what are the methods of giving a minimized one?
Can anybody enlighten?

What do you mean? That the term “Ruined Orgasms” gets more hits than anything else? If so, you’re very wrong. Which, in turn, renders the meaning of your entire post wrong. It’s, frankly, poorly researched nonsense.

I am, and always have been, sub male. I find the incredible amount of fantasy masquerading as fact within femdom discussion frustrating and destructive. If people spoke honestly about their experiences and stopped pretending to be something from their imagination we’d have a much clearer idea of the meaning and potential of all of this stuff.