Ruined orgasms is the key phrase bringing the most traffic from search engines.
Not a big surprise. A number of the runner up terms involve orgasm denial and enforced male chastity. Perpetually popular topics in Femdom. That is why so many telephone dominatrices make a living forbidding men to have an orgasm. Though rendering an orgasm unsatisfying is certainly extra mean and cruel.
The second most popular topic is female superiority.
Guess you guys are looking for matriarchal fascists who ensure you have as little physical sexual satisfaction as possible.
In your fantasies anyway.
You might want to look at my summary or orgasm ruination and milking kRuined Orgasms Theory & Practice
Originally posted 2008-03-03 20:57:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Hmmm, MY fantasy is ordering a man not to come, then stimulating him until he can’t help it and has a fantastic orgasm… and then I get to punish him and make him feel bad for failing me!
Train me,plz…my cock is in your control.How would u punish me if i failing u?
Most Supreme Mistress Sadiste,
You are exactly right! You create a conflict within the mind of Your slave, between obedience to its Owner’s commands and the necessary course of nature. Then when it cannot obey You, You take Your pleasure in punishing Your disobedient slave — even though You and it both know that it had no choice in the matter and failure was Your intention for it all along.
This just makes the punishment all the more delightful for Your slave as well as Yourself, Gracious and Cruel Goddess.
As for Jeffy’s impertinent question (“you will find out, dog, once you submit to Me!”Mistress Sadiste would probably reply), if Divine Mistress Sadiste chooses to allow Her unworthy slave to penetrate Her, it will lick Her precious altar clean while She whips it without mercy. If it kneels at Her feet during the exercise, She will let it spurt on Her boots, then flog it as it cleans and polishes the with its tongue (or licks its filthy cum from the soles of Her boots after She steps in the mess on Her floor). The puny little disobedient organ will be soundly flogged and imprisoned for a long sentence, the impudent balls kicked until the slave attached to them writhes in agony on the floor. Then it will grovel across the floor, crawling on its face and belly, to lick Her feet again in apologetic gratitude for the punishment.
How’s that for starters?
You sound like my kind of girl.
A physically unsatisfying sensation can be immensely rewarding. It’s when the self-loathing reaches a peak and men feel ashamed to admit their desires for such things that this turns into something markedly unattractive.
I’m one example of a man who greatly enjoys being forced into having ruined, unsatisfying orgasms, but unlike many men I see writing about the topic I’m not inclined to deny the fact that that’s what I want.
There are two ways I can think of to ruin an orgasm.
The first, of course, is not to let the male have one at all.
The second is to make the experience unpleasurable. Any guy who has put hand to penis knows that you do not stop pumping on the first stroke. There has to be a certain amount of follow through or it just doesn’t feel right.
Then there are the psychological factors. Let the male know that you do not want him to cum. Tell him that you are disappointed with his lack of discipline.
Tell him that he needs training and supervision. Make him masturbate for you as you watch but not cum. If he does, just sigh, act disgusted, and say something like, “That was poor. I am disappointed in you. A real man could hold out. Bad boy. Clean that mess up and get out of my sight.” Then send him off to the corner or whatever.
If he does perform well, then reward him. Give him a lot of praise. In fact, the reward could be that you masturbate him to completion. “See, isn’t it better when I do it? You are not to do it without my supervision.” I think under the circumstances even a partial masturbation (stop on the first squirt as described above) might be enough. How you actually reward his is up to you.
Guilt and the need to please you will make masturbation and orgasm on his own unthinkable, and possibly even impossible.
Sadiste you are onto a sure fire winner there.You get the satisfaction that you are giving him great sex.He gets sense of control because he was forbidden to come and you both get the pleasure of getting the beating/giving the beating or other punishment.
He gets to feel bad/good and you get to feel good/bad i.e.wickedly naughty.
>Ruined orgasms is the key phrase bringing the most traffic from search >engines.
What do you mean? That the term “Ruined Orgasms” gets more hits than anything else? If so, you’re very wrong. Which, in turn, renders the meaning of your entire post wrong. It’s, frankly, poorly researched nonsense.
I am, and always have been, sub male. I find the incredible amount of fantasy masquerading as fact within femdom discussion frustrating and destructive. If people spoke honestly about their experiences and stopped pretending to be something from their imagination we’d have a much clearer idea of the meaning and potential of all of this stuff.
I love it when my orgasms are “ruined” or minimised, I also love when we are having vanilla sex and shge will tell me to stop and make me sleep on the floor after she has had her orgasm. The possibilities are endless.
Luv 4 women to cum. I luv to swallow pussy juice.
What are the ways of giving a minimized orgasm ?
Clear methods of ruining are there.
But what are the methods of giving a minimized one?
Can anybody enlighten?
I am the sub in a female led relationship and have been for the last fifteen years. I am allowed only one orgasm a month and and i must stop masturbating right at the point of cumming so that my orgasm is ruined. she says she likes it that because it makes me much more submissive.
I know she is right and i would not want it any other way, and i know i love her much more for it.
She doe allow me a pleasurable or full orgasm twice a year. Once on my birthday and once on our anniversary.
just my two cents worth
All orgasms are good. None are ruined. You guys are just making this up in your heads!
Just when your about to cum have your cock and balls submeresed in ice.