Whether or not a man should help his wife or girlfriend with household chores shouldn’t even be a question. More strongly than ever since most wives work.
But the self-proclaimed sissy sub-hubbies who make it sound as if their marriages consist of him scrubbing bathroom floors and ironing clothes (the two favorite chores it seems) make their sincerity questionable.
Is it that these benighted men had exceptionally sexist upbringings or another case of public fantasizing?
It especially seems the latter with those guys who say they work a fulltime job, then come home and labor until bedtime. Presumably their wives are curled up on the couch watching TV and eating bonbons.
Originally posted 2008-12-20 10:26:06. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Relationships require some balance and it does seem unlikely that sissy men are working a full day and then coming home to scrub the floors only. But, there are sissy husbands who take up many traditionally female household chores and do so in only an apron while their wives watch tv. I am one and I thank her for letting me do so. Vacuuming and ironing are favorites. Yes, we do share in the household duties, and I am grateful to her for letting me do some of mine in my get-up. And it does amuse her.
I, too, do household chores, but not because I’m “a sissy” or “forced” to do them. (Oh yes, pleeeeeeeeze “force” me to lick the house clean! Right….)
Also, I do chores in my skirts and panties because I enjoy it, not because I’m “made” to. Those men who on the one hand bemoan their marriage’s lot of doing chores in women’s clothing and on the other obviously enjoy it are really enjoying the bemoaning as well, and I sincerely hope they aren’t daft enough not to notice their own desires.
As an aside, it’s nice to see you posting again, Richard. Welcome back to the blogosphere.
You were missed.
I have to laugh. The two chores (bathroom cleanup and ironing) are two “chores” I do.
I do them simply because I do them better than Mrs. Mule.
Cleaning bathrooms is rather easy. There is no subtlety to it. It’s not much unlike swabbing a deck on a ship. Everything is washable. I’m still trying to figure out a way to hose it all down when I am finished.
I became a master ironer in the military. No commercial dry cleaner could get my shirts done was well as I can. Mrs. Mule puts my shirts in a dry cleaner to be done. I still, touch them up before I wear them. Ironing also takes a “heavy hand” (along with some finesse).
Another “chore” that requires a heavy hand is vacuuming. I don’t have a problem with putting the vacuum down to the level where the beaters are at the lowest level. I don’t have a problem with picking up the end of the couch with one hand to vacuum under it with the other.
Otherwise, chores are divided by skill level and opportunity. For example, Mrs. Mule does almost all the cooking. Although I am a fairly good cook in my own right, her imagination is better. Also she gets home hours before I do so we eat before midnight. I do the cleanup and yell at her when she gets in my way
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The only chore I do in kinky mode is clean the pool. I’m learning what to do. When we got the pool, I told Mrs. Mule that it was her responsibility to do whatever it takes to keep it maintained. She decides what needs to be done and has either trained me to do it, or gives me specific directions on how to do it.
Of course I do it in the buff, as her naked pool boy. There is something about the pool that says “play” and she does play with me a lot in the pool.
We don’t look at what we do as chores. They are simply things we need to do to keep the household running and we try to have as much fun doing them as we can.
Doing the household chores is something that should be done by both the husband and wife,boyfriend and girlfriend,,what ever,unless there are different circumstances in play.The woman might be dominating the male and he does them as ordered to like an obediant slave.Or like in my case,,i for some reason enjoy doing the housework,and especially if i get to do it dressed as feminine as possible.I doubt there are many women who are willing to do whatever chores she is told,while wearing a maids outfit or skirt and high heels but that is how i did the house work when i was married,and still do with several female friends houses that i am a sissy maid for now.It isnt always about the male being forced to do it,being dominated and feminised by the woman.I had this one woman whom i was friends with that had a seven year old daughter and they both loved to have me over ,I would usually be totally feminised when i arrived,or would change and get fixed up after i was in their house,I liked leaving my place totally femmed because when i did that i had only what i wore and didnt hardly ever bring any male clothing.By not having male clothing i was forced to be totally feminised at all times till i left, whether i wanted to or not,no matter how uncomfortable i was.When i arrived if i wasnt already feminised id go to the bathroom and make myself as feminine as i could then id visit a bit and the woman living there who was a little over ten years younger would tell me what all she need and would have things she added and removed from her list.While there i was her sissy maid and was referred as such in front of anyone who came to visit.I took care of her little girl,(dressing,driving to school,homework,feeding and whatever else needed)as well as did all cooking ,cleaning and outside chores.I was happy when she called me and always went to her house immediatly and enjoyed every minute i was there which would be anywhere from just a day to staying for maybe a week and be in a skirt and heels
Thanks for posting this provocative picture. What strikes me is that such an illustration from a mainstream women’s magazine is as pure a piece of femdom porn as anything that Eric Stanton or Gene Bilbrew ever came up with. The beauty of the draughtsmanship and design only adds to the erotic power. What an unnerving image it must have been back in the 50s…I grew up around magazines like this, Ladies Home Journal and things like that, because my mother read them, and although I can’t remember their precise contents now, I love to look at vintage issues in flea markets when I come upon them.
That being said…I write femdom fantasy stories about, amongst various topics, guys being “forced” to do housework by dominant women; but in reality I find housework the most boring task of all. But of course a dominant female could get me to do it readily in a roleplay situation. And of course, this seeming paradox (so trite, I admit) is, on the level of my subconscious, quite logical and rational. What else could be more submissive and humiliating than to be “forced” do a “woman’s job” you loathe and have little respect for? Because a “real man” doesn’t clean…he spends his valuable time creating or conquering! Or other “important” things like that. Such are the underpinnings of erotic fantasy.
I think the reality is that they do a lot less than they think they do. Plus there are all kinds of chores that are not seen as chores.
I can only speak of my own relationship. We both work full time and we share the household load. We each have our preferred jobs and our hated jobs. We do them for us. As by working together we create free time, play time for us both. Really I have no use for a man that because he is doing everything in the house and working is too tired/exhausted to play with.