A nice lady asks an online group:
So, what’s the attraction of feminization? As a female myself, I don’t understand why it is humiliating to dress the way I do….. In fact, I find it rather disturbing that dressing like a woman is humiliating! (I do it all the time, don’t find it humiliating, and would like to be informed if I’m doing something that is a social faux pas!)
One respondent points out:
If I were to guess at why a bio male would feel humiliated, I would think it might have something to do with being caught with their female relatives clothing on and then getting a sexual charge out of that. Having been humiliated and feeling sexualized at the time which would then bring about the “fetish”. Or due to social conditioning that it’s not acceptable yet they want to do it, that which brings about a humiliating experience.
In essence, it’s not really being humiliated at all because they ‘want’ to wear it but maybe through humilation they feel they can do it. Afterall someone else is “making them do it”. Humans are odd and wonderful creatures with all of our complexities. *smile*
Another speculates:
Being forced to feminize is, in my opinion, not so much a humiliation exercise as one which opens all the deep-seated worries many men have about their masculinity. This in itself may be humiliating.
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Originally posted 2009-02-21 10:47:54. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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I’ve done some forced fem play before. To me, the appeal isn’t in femininity being degrading; I see nothing wrong with (and am attracted to) femininity. The appeal is in being made to take on the qualities of something you’re not. I don’t identify as feminine, and being made to take that on is an erotic form of humiliation.
I don’t think I enjoy anything more than shopping in a lingerie department with my wife. We enjoy selecting pretty panties and soft nightgowns for myself. I love my feminine side as does my wife . Humiliation is when she wants me to try the garments on in the dressing room.I cringe as I pass the female attendant in charge of the rooms. She waits outside the dressing rooms and I must come out and show her each outfit. awful huhiliation if anyone else is around.
I’m a bio male and I don’t find feminization humiliating at all. Rather, I’m being allowed to emulate, to the degree I can, the Superior Sex. I was taken by a Female friend to a dress shop recently, tried on a few items she selected, then was “forced” to parade around the store in a dress, which I subsequently purchased, for about a half hour. I was of course seen by the store help, other women shopping, and a few males as well. Couldn’t have been happier; no thoughts of humiliation.
my own personal reason is because i am impotent and cant satisfy a woman i feel the need to still feel close to a woman or girl, i miss the touch and smell, the feel of their clothes, there is nothing feminine about the way i look apart from longish hair, but i wear really short dresses and skirts that reveal my limp member, this makes me look ridiculous to women and a freak, and thats what i feel because im not a full man, so i like to be humiliated by women, and this is the best way, i f i wear them to a gay bar i know im gonna get beaten by a woman or man because they dont like it, but again i want that, i think everyone has a different reason for wanting to befeminizes, i love woen but cant have one so i feel the need to punish myself
I think a few comments have pretty well covered it. As a guy, I was brought up to be masculine and not to ever let our guard down or we would be ridiculed and teased by our friends and family basically forever it appeared. I didn’t have a sister or any real day to day involvement with girls and with the two things together, my curiosity grew…what was so secret about girls and the way they dress that I was constantly told I couldn’t do it or else? Eventually you have to find out? I think it still feels like I’m getting away with something really taboo when I crossdress but it’s still a huge turn on. The thing that has changed is it’s now more of a turn on to not only dress but to take chances at getting caught or seen and even teased afterwards. I still don’t really want other guys to see me that way though, probably because of the influence of my brother and father to be masculine at all times. It’s not a bad thing to dress in a feminine way, it’s just that we where taught differently. It’s changing with the times though, lots of guys now share their secret fetish.
My boy does not consider feminisation to be humiliating at all. In fact more like exhilarating. Besides he thinks female attire is much prettier and nicer than male attire.