There are a myriad of qualities to want in another person.
What are the top three things you look for in a submissive male?
- Good Body
- Masochism
- Submissiveness
- Smarts
- Kindness
- Romantic
- Common Cultural Interests
- Professional Career
- Or?
Originally posted 2008-04-07 18:02:24. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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1. Self-awareness
2. Intelligence
3. Mutual attraction
In general, a complementary personality to my own.
I’m kind of curious why the two lists were so different. Most of the things I’d have picked were on the dominant woman’s list.
Aside from Common Cultural Interests and Shared Fetishes they were meant to be either complementary or loosely similar with the “Or” being an invitation to chose whatever you want.
Obviously my sense of what is parallel failed me.
The top three things I look for in a submissive male:
1. intelligence
2. sincerity (in service)
3. ability to communicate effectively
I’ve often wrapped all of these qualities into the “label” of intuitively astute.
Honesty and sincerity.
Focus on pleasing and bring in service.
Intelligent
Successful
Witty
Romantic
Strong body AND mind
Well mannered and respectful
And, that’s just the beginning
Self esteem, honesty and sinceruty, intelligence, similar sense of humour, similar interests in life.