The original title was A Narrative of the Adventures and Psychological Experiences of Julian Robinson (afterwards Viscount Ladywood) Under Petticoat-Rule, written by himself. Also Gynecocracy, The Adventures of Julian Robinson. Attributed to Viscount Ladywood. First published in 1893. Gynecocracy was translated in French as La Gynécocratie ou La Domination de la Femme, par Jacques Desroix, précédé d’une Étude sur le Masochisme dans l’Histoire et les Traditions .

Read it? Want to?

Originally posted 2010-01-04 10:35:05. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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La Gynécocratie ou La Domination de la Femme
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Margaret Thatcher, a consummate dominant in Her public and vanilla-world way, said once that Being powerful is like being beautiful — if you have to say it, you aren’t. The essence of civilized domination is that a a true Dominant Woman never has to raise Her voice or scream at Her slave (Think of The Godfather — speaking softly!). The contrast between a Mistress’s soft allowing a slave to serve Her, permitting it to debase itself at Her feet, contrasts all the more with the fact that She will be obeyed. Her power is enough that She never has to lose Her temper. She gives a quiet suggestion, and if Her slave hesitates before obeying instantly, She doesn’t have to say a word: one cruel lash across the slave’s naked back, or face or whatever part of its anatomy is convenient, is all that’s needed. In Middle Eastern cultures where real slavery is genuinely practiced, not for the sake of BDSM, but that’s the way life IS, the custom is to speak politely, even request, as Richard suggests his Lady Alexandria might do. Well-trained slaves know what will happen if they don’t give 150% obedience at once. So, too, with our BDSM world. Both Mistress and slave can be happy with such an arrangement: One knowing that She has actual power, and the other reveling in obedience and submission. That’s why, when a command is carried out, Mistress can say that She is pleased by Her slave, and the slave, in turn, thanks Her for the privilege of serving Her (with, in this house, a warm kiss on Her toe)

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At least among the educated men are more likely to do some of the cooking and a substantial portion of child rearing.

Female sexual needs are hidden behind polite fictions (lies). Men get to cry. Some even to use cosmetics.

As general and sexual relationship among heterosexuals shift surely the fetish lives will as well. If you had a crystal ball or temporal television how would you expect to see relationships among dominant women and submissive guys change and hopefully evolve?

Mistress Flying Saucer wants to know!

Originally posted 2008-05-19 19:00:07. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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The central rule in dating, meeting and hooking up is: be honest. So much easier said than done for many men.

What are you like physically: strong, muscular, skinny, mushy, obese. There’s no value in fibbing – she’ll know the moment she sees you. And being dishonest is about as far from being submissive as you can get.

What are you like mentally: do you spend your free time with the television as your best friend. Do you read anything: fantasy novels, horror fiction, literary prose … ? That may seem trivial but people often find common ground in small things. And for some people intellectual and aesthetic pursuits aren’t trivial.

Are you physically active, athletic? Do you do good works/ Are you politically active?

A woman needs a reason to want to meet you. It isn’t because you’ll “do anything.” She’s already had offer from a thousand strangers, knows not to take it seriously and isn’t looking for a doormat with arms and legs anyway.

Learn how to describe your qualities in your profiles. It only takes a few words. Even less than this entry.

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Submisive Males: What Kind of Man Are You?
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Below a few speculations about the wellsprings and motivation that make men crave to be forbidden orgasms.

Male Chastity 1 : Erotic Play

Orgasm Denial for Hotter Sex

Boosting the intensity of sexual experiences is probably the most common motivation to male chastity as erotic play. Postponing sex results in a more passionate, intense experience when the period of denial ends.

For the woman to tease the male enhances the intensity.

Male Chastity 2 : Power Exchange

Orgasm Denial as Pure BDSM

Bill Ward was so tasteful.

Male orgasm denial is an intimate and direct mode of exerting authority for the dominant partner. Male chastity is a very pure and simple way to exercise the D/s dynamic. Submitting allows the submissive male the pleasure of his role.

Male Chastity 3 : Manliness

Male Chastity as Macho

The story of the world’s only fertile man.

Needing for your sexuality to be controlled is a confirmation of virility. Lustfulness can be seen as strong and macho. This is not unlike affectionately calling a female slutty.

Male Chastity 4 : Sexual Guilt

Chastity as Expiation

Some men feel guilty about their sexual desires and needs.Perhaps even guilty for being male. They may have been raised to regard sexuality as sinful. And women as pure. This perhaps is the mindset most likely to lead to belief in female supremacy.

Male Chastity 5 : Gender Dysphoria

Chaste Sissies

Gender identity dysphoria surely motivates some genetic males’ desire to be made chaste. Their penises feel unnatural, even ‘bad.’ Denial – along with sissyfication – enables them to come closer to being who they feel they really are.

Male Chastity 6 : Misbehavior

Passive Aggressive Intransigence

Part of the lore ( – assortment of urban legends? – ) of enforced orgasm denial is that the male becomes less attentive, helpful, perhaps becomes a downright shit once allowed an orgasm. How many times have I read this online? Countless. Examples from real life? None.

I’m not saying some men don’t experience some sort of psychic droop post-orgasm: that is biochemistry, not misbehavior.

But a man whose behavior substantially changes, becomes markedly unhelpful after having is either someone a woman shouldn’t be deeply involved with or who wants to be put back in his CB-6000.

A sort of invisible topping from the bottom. He – probably unconsciously – wants to return to a submissive, controlled status. So he insures that he deserves to have his cock locked back up.

And you never, ever know how much people say online applied to life as it is actually lived offline.

Male Chastity 7 : Bondage

Material D/s Symbolism

Submissive straight men, by their very nature, desire and need to feel under the thumb ( – heel – ) of a dominant woman. To be subdued by her. Often – on some level – helpless.

That is the root of the general appeal of bondage for all submissive persons. Physical limitation can be a satisfyingly unambiguous experience of a top’s control.

The CB-6000 aside from the obvious purpose of male orgasm regulation is a bondage device, albeit a very specialized one. It is bondage a man can experience when away from a dominant, even in public without embarrassment. Instances of thwarted erections are frustrating yet joyous highpoints of his submission.

A male chastity device is a tangible symbol of the power exchange.

You, of course, have your own speculations and beliefs. Tell me about them: leave a comment.

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Men Love Orgasm Denial & Chastity – Why?
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Far better than a “legally enforceable contract” (which cannot exist under U.S. law, though it might elsewhere) is the willing agreement of a slave to serve its Owner. Like a successful sale, this arrangement depends on mutual consent and satisfaction. The couple can have a set of rules written down, if they wish. But perhaps even better is for the Owner to have full freedom to make the rules, change them at will, and enforce them as She pleases, and for Her slave to trust and accept Her will completely. That is, after all, the true essence of slavery and submission: there is just one rule, Obedience (for the slave) and Command (for the Owner). All the rest is just details. It’s probably good to have a way to discuss things if necessary. A safeword will trigger a conference: the rules may say that durng this conference, the slave may freely ask or suggest, but the Owner has the final say on what will be done. It all comes down to trust. If the slave trusts its Owner, then it will accept Her decision — on anything. After all, an Owner wants to keep Her property in good working order and serviceable, or there is no point in the whole business. In the worst case, if She does cause the death of Her slave, She will eventually be caught up by police and tried for murder … all that is worth avoiding, so She has a motivation to make sure that Her slave stays alive and well. On the other hand, if both have chosen well, the slave will be motivated to serve as expected, to avoid any more pain than he will certainly endure by the sheer nature of the relationship.

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Rules for Male Slaves: Common Sense
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Before seeking to find someone who might be interested in meeting you a person interested in female domination and male submission should think deeply and clearly about what they themselves are seeking.

• BDSM Hookups (One Night Stands)
• Regular S&M or D/s Play Partner
• Dating that includes BDSM
• Dating that is defined solely by F/m Roles
• Marriage that includes some D/s
• Marriage rooted in Female Domination
• 24/7 Total Power Exchange

Are you just looking for a sadomasochistic quickie? Then you should locate the nearest munch group and become well enough respected to be invited to play parties.

Are you just looking for someone to explore risk aware masochistic and sadistic play with? See the above. Though either can also be found with an honest personal ad.

Is power exchange something you want to explore only in an erotic context? That it is part of but not the defining force when you date or want in a marriage?

Do you want some sort of Female Led Relationship? What do Loving Female Authority, FLR, Wife-Led Marriage mean to you? She’s the boss and you have less rights than a 1950s housewife? Or that she is the senior partner in the relationship?

Do you think that you are seeking a TPE or “lifestyle” marriage where the wife is absolute dictator and the husband has no rights? Do you believe, say, in female supremacy? Do you really? Are you sure?

Many women and men when they begin searching for a friend, partner or mate do not take the time to discern within themselves what they actually desire and are capable of offering. Are capable of living.

Before you put yourself in the dating market make sure that you know what you are trying to sell.

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People who think power exchange and sadomasochism are exclusive with romantic passion are either ignorant or inexperienced. Or have only met desperate wacky masochists (which do wander the web in great numbers).

BDSM and Romance are not mutually exclusive, though sadly, much of the current erotica published for mass media out there seems to cater to the view that it has to be.

For me, I do not think I nearly as fulfilled after a scene when there is not some element of romance involved, and I believe the same can be said about Silk as well. I am able to slip ‘deeper’ into headspace when I feel that I am traveling those dark road out of love rather then doing a scene to get my ‘kink fix’. Of course, Silk and I have also been accused of being sickly sweet at times

It does also get under my skin a bit when look around sometimes and see so many do-me and (pain/bondage/whatever)sluts out there just letching Dom/mes for their next session. To me, a submissive should be looking for ways to sweep their partner off their feet, both in and out of scene…

Romance?

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Sweet & Tender Femdom / BDSM
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If you have the cash you can actually go there and spend days being beaten, degraded and used as slave labor.

If you could afford it would you visit the OWK?

Originally posted 2008-03-21 08:00:31. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Other World Kingdom
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Fellatio is degrading only because we think it is. If Mistress enjoys it, and wishes to suck Her slave’s cock, that is Her right.

It’s also Her right to stop five seconds before he climaxes, and let him suffer whilst She laughs (the slave is immobilized, of course, all the while, so suffering is all he can do).

The suggestion about spitting it all back into his mouth and making him swallow it is priceless. Thank You, Mistress, this worthless creature kisses Your feet in eternal gratitude.

The same effect is achieved when Mistress is pleased to have Her male in fact fuck Her, then forces him to lick Her clean. If for some reason She prefers not to be fucked, then there is always forced slave masturbation on Her feet, shoes or boots, followed by his licking Her feet or footwear clean.

The special quality of this is two-fold. First, males (as all Women know) lose their keen excitement as soon as they ejaculate. It’s no longer exciting sexually — but to whipped and forced to eat the cum becomes truly and genuinely humiliating!

Second, a male regards his sperm as his most important product, the essence of his genetic identity, and all that. Instinctively, he wants to deposit it in the womb of a female to procreate children carrying his own DNA into the world. But here’s what happens: his offering is spurned; he is made to spill it at the feet of his Goddess, who looks down on it, and him, as filthy dirt soiling Her immaculate Self.

The slave then must use his mouth and tongue, not a rag or mop, to clean this dirt from Her feet (or perhaps even from the floor at Her feet!) and swallow it, dashing his hopes of fathering a child.

When you combine those two thrusts of humiliation, a slave truly feels like less than nothing. For a real masochist, it’s heaven!

Response to Fellatio and Dominant Women.

Originally posted 2009-11-09 20:00:23. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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