If you have the cash you can actually go there and spend days being beaten, degraded and used as slave labor.

If you could afford it would you visit the OWK?

Originally posted 2008-03-21 08:00:31. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Other World Kingdom
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Licking the boots of a beautiful Woman is the most wonderful thing in the world! It is more than a pleasure. It is a privilege and an honour. It is, of course, ultimately humiliating, placing the slave’s highest anatomy at the service of Her lowest. To lick Her boots whilst this slave crawls naked at Her feet is just that much more a humiliating way to show Her how much this worm reveres Her. Then, the irony of having Her command that, after it has cleaned Her boots thoroughly, this slave must then kneel and masturbate before Her, squirting on the shiny boot toe[s]. Sometimes She will hasten the process with Her riding crop, or stroke the underside of Her slave’s cock with Her booted toe. It often amuses Her to order, at the last minute, that the masturbation stop, or that it continue, but that there shall be no ejaculation. When this becomes impossible, She beats Her slave for disobedience. At any rate, the inevitable next stage is that the tormented slave-cock does spill its seed, right on the tongue-polished toe of Her boot — or both toes. Then this slave must repeat the licking all over again. Now, of course, the sexual excitement, like the erect rigidity of the organ, has wilted. But the tongue must lick, and the mouth must swallow, the slimy cum. Not infrequently,, Her riding-crop encourages the lazy slave. Last stage of the ritual, after Her careful inspection and possibly a punishment and repeat cleaning, is for the slave, prostrate and exhausted, to kiss Her boots one final time and, for all the humiliation, pain and frustration She has given him, say with the utmost humble sincerity, “Thank You, Mistress.”

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Margaret Thatcher, a consummate dominant in Her public and vanilla-world way, said once that Being powerful is like being beautiful — if you have to say it, you aren’t.

The essence of civilized domination is that a a true Dominant Woman never has to raise Her voice or scream at Her slave (Think of The Godfather — speaking softly!).

The contrast between a Mistress’s soft allowing a slave to serve Her, permitting it to debase itself at Her feet, contrasts all the more with the fact that She will be obeyed.

Her power is enough that She never has to lose Her temper. She gives a quiet suggestion, and if Her slave hesitates before obeying instantly, She doesn’t have to say a word: one cruel lash across the slave’s naked back, or face or whatever part of its anatomy is convenient, is all that’s needed.

In Middle Eastern cultures where real slavery is genuinely practiced, not for the sake of BDSM, but that’s the way life IS, the custom is to speak politely, even request, as Richard suggests his Lady Alexandria might do. Well-trained slaves know what will happen if they don’t give 150% obedience at once. So, too, with our BDSM world.

Both Mistress and slave can be happy with such an arrangement: One knowing that She has actual power, and the other reveling in obedience and submission.

That’s why, when a command is carried out, Mistress can say that She is pleased by Her slave, and the slave, in turn, thanks Her for the privilege of serving Her (with, in this house, a warm kiss on Her toe).

This was a comment on A Spoken Collar.

Originally posted 2011-01-14 20:45:16. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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“Tim” is right on. The imagined effect is what counts — as someone once commented, the brain is the greatest sexual organ we have.

Clean “special” shoes or boots (they can be kept disinfected) and a washed section of linoleum floor as just what is needed to create the effect, without the infection.

Hint: a little bit of olive oil on the boots, soles and uppers, makes the licking less troublesome, while keeping the leather properly shiny.

By the way, as generations of cocksuckers have proven, there is sno negat8ive health effect from swallowing semen, per se. Try this suggested scene:

Mistress compels Her male slave animal to masturbate while kneeling at Her feet (with a riding crop for encouragement). This is no pleasure: the slave must cum on command, and suffer in the process.

To make it fun, She tells Her slave “not” to cum, but forces it to jerk off faster and faster. Soon, it ejaculates on Her boots; She whips the slave for disobeying Her command not to cum. Then, with Her whip enforcing obedience, the slave licks every drop of the sperm from Her boots, while She gloats and laughs. The psychological fact is that as soon as a male cums, but not inside a woman, all the fun stops at once.

Now, when She forces the male to slurp up the cum, it is onerous and not fun at all — believe me, he suffers! At this point, true submission really happens. (If possible, She should have the slave’s wrists handcuffed [in front of him] while he is pulling at his cock, then order him to stretch his arms out in a worship position. She steps on the handcuff chain, imprisoning Her slave so than it cannot run away in disgust.

Her whip then enforces the bootlicking until She is satisfied that every drop is cleaned. (Then, of course, She may command him to kneel up, so She can wipe the last drops from the tip of Her slave’s cock with Her toe, and have him lick that clean, too, before kissing Her boots in final thanks for being allowed to entertain Her.)

Wonderful!!

This was written as a comment on Boot Worship.

Originally posted 2011-01-11 23:39:50. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Franco is a Femdom artist known for his illustrations of dominant older women spanking younger men. An email from Franco had me thinking that some of you probably find the idea of a woman taking a very firm hand and disciplining you, insuring your future good behavior.

Does this image excite you?

Are there women who wish – at times – to be this sort of strict matriarch?

Originally posted 2009-10-22 13:59:46. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Originally posted 2009-01-12 08:55:52. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Some woman who will make you bleed and scream?

Leave you whimpering and begging?

Crushes you under foot and laughs at you?

And do you stop thinking like this after you’ve masturbated?

Originally posted 2008-03-15 04:57:05. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Bitch Goddess
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Guys:
Do you want a woman to totally subjugate you (ala Elise Sutton) or simply a bedroom dominatrix (Dominant Divas)?

Gals:*
Do you want to regulate a man’s life or limit things to tease and denial and other kinky fun?

Or is there some mysterious middle ground?

( * My first and probably last use of that word.)

Originally posted 2008-03-04 12:38:17. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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By Mistress Thionite

[1]Male Slaves are considered as the lowest form of life on this planet. Every
other living thing has a higher rank than that of Male Slave. A Male Slave’s Mistress
may use his Male Slave for any purpose, including, but not limited to, household
duties, sexual gratification, and being loaned out to others for the
exchange of money. There are two types of Male Slaves, Full-Time Male Slaves, and
SessionMale Slaves. Some rules differ for each type, and are described as such
when necessary. When no distinction between Male Slave types is given, the Rule
applies to both types. Full-Time Male Slaves are exactly as the title suggests,
full time. These types are used in household duties, and are under
constant supervision by a Mistress. Session Male Slaves are those who only
occasionally enjoy the sexual aspect of the Mistress/Male Slave life.

[2] Absolute obedience of each of these 35 rules is required. Failure to
comply with any of these rules will result in 25 lashes with the cat-o-nine
tails, belt or cane, for each offense.

[3] Male Slave is not permitted to use pronouns that refer to it as a person.
Only “Male Slave”, and “it”, or something else that shows no personal identity.

[4] Male Slave will not speak unless spoken to by Mistress or any of Mistress’s
associates, except in case of an emergency such as fire, drowning, or other
such event that would require instant help.

[5] Full-Time Male Slave is responsible for keeping its body devoid of hair,
except eyebrows and on the top of its head, either by shaving, waxing or
hair-removal gels/lotions. This will be done with complete supervision by
Mistress. Session Male Slave may be required to arrive at its appointment
completely hairless. This is at the discretion of Mistress.

[6] Full-Time Male Slave is to be naked at all times. Session Male Slave is to be
naked when it arrives for its appointment. The appointment is considered
to have started and/or ended the moment Male Slave steps over Mistress’s
threshold.

[7] Full-Time Male Slave is forbidden to touch its genitals, or ass, except in
accordance of Rules 5, 13 & 14. Session Male Slave is forbidden from touching
its genitals at any time during an appointment.

[8] Immediately upon agreement of becoming Full-Time Male Slave, it agrees to
surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s Male Slave, in the
form of all liquidated bank assets. Male Slave must also forfeit any previous
employment. Male Slave’s immediate family must be notified of Male Slave’s free will
to go into servitude. In return, Mistress agrees to keep in touch with
Male Slave’s family, in the event of family sickness or death. Session Male Slave is
required to surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s
Male Slave at the rate of $50 per hour. Appointments generally do not last more
than one day, unless previously agreed upon by both parties.

[9] Full-Time Male Slave is not permitted to leave Mistress’s residence, for any
reason except for emergency purposes.

[10] Male Slave is not permitted to use any seating other than the floor.

[11] Male Slave is not permitted to use any appliances, electronic devices or
other household items, unless otherwise ordered. These items include, but
are not limited to, stove, refrigerator, microwave, washer/dryer,
television, cell phone, radio, computer, etc.

[12] Male Slave has no privacy.

[13] Full-Time Male Slave will give itself a daily enema while under its
Mistress’s supervision. This will serve as Male Slave’s allotted daily
defecation. Session Male Slave is required to arrive at its appointment,
completely cleaned out.

[14] Full-Time Male Slave is granted permission to relieve its bladder three
times daily, at 8 am, 4 pm and Midnight, provided Mistress is awake. If
Mistress is not awake, or Male Slave is not being used as described in Rule 15, no
bathroom relief shall be granted. Session Male Slave will not be permitted to
relieve any bodily functions during an appointment.

[15] When Full-Time Male Slave is in use, Male Slave must remain within 3 feet of its
Mistress’s side, at all times. “In Use” is considered to be anytime Mistress
is home and awake. Session Male Slave must remain in sight at all times.

[16] When not in use, Full-Time Male Slave will reside in its cage, where its
arms and legs will be shackled, and tethered by its balls with a rope or
chain.

[17] Full-Time Male Slave will be displayed as such when Mistress receives guests.
No effort shall be made by Male Slave to cover up or hide its lowly status from
others. Male Slave is required to undertake all hostess duties, and provide
enough food to satisfy two servings, per person, per each dish made. Male Slave
will also provide all refreshments, and offer its mouth as an ashtray for
those guests who smoke.

[18] Male Slave shall regularly be tested for Obedience, to ensure proper
compliance.

[19] All orders given to Male Slave must be obeyed immediately, without
question, and without hesitation.

[20] Male Slave shall assume any position when commanded. Positions are as
follows: (A) “Inspect”- Male Slave will stand, legs spread apart to its
shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (B) “Present”-
Male Slave will stand, legs together, hands clasped tightly behind its back.
(C) “Kneel”- Male Slave will drop to floor on its knees, legs spread apart to
its shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (D) “Lay”-
Male Slave will drop to its stomach, legs spread as wide apart as possible,
hands clasped tightly behind its head, elbows touching the ground. (E)
“Wall”- Male Slave will stand against nearest wall, hands clasped tightly behind
its head, and arch its body out as far as possible so that only its elbows
and heels are touching anything solid. (F) “Relax”- Male Slave will drop
facedown to the floor, then raise itself off the floor and arch its back as
high as possible, with only fingertips [not entire hands!] and tips of toes
touching the floor.

[21] When Male Slave is not being commanded, it will sit on the floor, hands
wrapped around Mistress’s ankles.

[22] Full-Time Male Slave will be locked into a chastity device at all times,
and permitted to cum only as Mistress sees fit. SessionMale Slaves may or may
not be kept in a chastity device, dependent upon Mistress’s desire. Male Slave
will be frequently edged toward cumming, but not be permitted to do so.
If, during an edging session Male Slave “accidentally” cums without permission,
it will receive an additional 10 lashes.

[23] Male Slave is required to have a butt plug in its anal cavity at all times.

[24] If Male Slave must relieve any bodily functions other than allotted times,
it must ask permission. If permission is asked, Male Slave will be punished for
breaking Rule 4 and receive an additional 25 lashes. Permission may or may
not be granted, dependent upon present activities and/or Mistress’s mood.

[25] When there is more than one Full-Time Male Slave in residence,Male Slaves are
not permitted to speak to each other in accordance with Rule 4. There are
video and audio surveillance devices located throughout Mistress’s home,
which are in use 24/7. If Male Slave is discovered to disobey this rule, an
additional 50 lashes will be served as punishment to all parties involved.

[26] Male Slave understands that it will be subjected to any and all sorts of
varying things, including, but not limited to, urination, pain, and
bondage.

[27] Male Slave will immediately apologize, and request forgiveness of any
wrongdoing.

[28] When Male Slave is answering a question or commandment, Male Slave must reply in
as few words as possible. Male Slave will always end each sentence with either
“Sir”, “Mistress”, or “Mistress [insert name here]“.

[29] Full-Time Male Slave will be fed twice each day, 7 am and 7 p.m. Meals
will consist of whatever Mistress deems appropriate. Session Male Slave will be
fed if an appointment lasts longer than 9 hours. Male Slave can refuse any
meal; however, each refusal of a meal is punishable by 25 additional
lashings. Full-Time Male Slave will also receive a 36-hour fast of any food or
drink.

[30] In the case of sickness or death of anyone in Full-Time Male Slave’s
immediate family, Male Slave will be notified immediately and granted a
temporary Bereavement Leave of all household duties and allowed to join its
family, with Mistress’s supervision. Rules 3 – 5, 7, 10 – 14, 19 – 24, 27 -
29, 31 & 34 will still apply. In addition, no effort will be made by Male Slave
to cover up or hide its lowly status from others. In addition, Male Slave’s
safeword will not apply to this situation, nor will it get Male Slave out of any
service during Bereavement Leave. Male Slave must always remain within sight of
Mistress. There are no exceptions. Any and all punishments earned during
Bereavement Leave will be given immediately upon return to full service.
All “off-duty” time accumulated by Male Slave during its reprieve will be added
on at the end of its service, and tripled.

[31] No refunds for Male Slave servitude will be given, for any reason,
whatsoever.

[32] Full-Time Male Slave agrees to a minimum mandatory 90-day contract, as a
trial period for both itself and Mistress. If during that time Male Slave does
not wish to continue service, or if Male Slave’s service is deemed
unsatisfactory by Mistress within that time, servitude will end on the 91st
day. If Mistress agrees to keep Male Slave longer, a new contract of no less than
six months will be signed and agreed upon. Each subsequent contract
renewal will carry an additional three months. For example, if Male Slave
passes the 90-day trial period, and the following six-month contract, the
following contract would be for nine months, the next would be twelve
months, and so on.

[33] Upon agreement of becoming Male Slave, it must commit to memory a safeword
of Mistress’s choosing. The safeword will release Male Slave from any situation
where it feels it is being used too roughly. If the safeword is used,
Male Slave understands that it will be punished for attempting to defy its
Mistress, and agrees to submit to a future punishment of Mistress’s choosing.

[34] Male Slave must endure any and all punishments without speaking, swearing
or other vocal statements. Sobbing, wailing, shrieking, etc., are
permitted, as long as no words are uttered. If any words are uttered
during punishment, an additional five lashes will be administered, per
offense.

[35] Male Slave is required to memorize each of these 35 Rules, verbatim, and
must be able to correctly state any and all Rules at any given time, under
any and all circumstances. Ten punishment lashes will be given for each
word missed or incorrectly added by Male Slave during recitation.

( * NB: I know some of you think this is the way to live in real life. But the words above are for fantasies. None of you could actually handle living like this.)

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This was left as a comment on – Ruined Orgasm – a post on one of my old blogs.

Many years ago when we were courting my wife decided to build up my
orgasm then as I shot she squeezed the tip of my glan to stop the spunk
form shooting out. I felt my spunk build up and build up as she
masterbated my shaft then shoot to immediately start a frantic pulsing
which went on and on for some time subsiding to leave a dull pain in my
groin.

She said that was great I could feel your spunk pumping to get out but
I decide when it can come out now so you better get use to it. After we
married this became her fetish, Being a nurse she thought up all sorts
of ways to ruine my orgasm as painfully as possible.

She continued to masturbate him – stroke his penis – after he ejaculated until it caused him pain.

This was the first kind of ruined orgasm that I ever heard of. Hearing about limiting an orgasm in such a way as to leave it sexually unfulfilling was much later.

If anyone has any experiences of diminished male orgasms it would be interesting to hear of them.

You might want to look at my summary or orgasm ruination and milking kRuined Orgasms Theory & Practice

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