The Future of F/m Relationships

The past several decades have thankfully seen huge changes in gender perceptions and relationships. Even the average American isn’t quite as silly as in the past. No one (openly) laughs at the idea of female engineers nowadays.

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Originally posted 2008-05-19 19:00:07. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Dommette

This morning I was thinking about women who object to “domme,” preferring “dom.” (I’ve always felt a woman calling herself Master very sexy.)

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Domme vs dom isn’t something I have a feeling about myself. This a.m. my mind harked back to when the bank my mother worked for (Trust Company) hired female guards. They called them guardettes.

So it could be much worse than domme.

It could be Dommette!

Originally posted 2009-01-14 05:29:29. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Do You Want to Make Men Obey You?

From the sexist folklore of yesteryear.

Female Supremacy : Femdom Mind Control Perfume

I can easily imagine a female domination story about a mind control perfume.

Originally posted 2010-01-29 13:10:23. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Mystress Wyfe

By Subbie Subby

Goodness gracious thought i to myself as i gave the upstairs rear bathroom its third scrubbing of he week, i’m so lucky to have such a sagacious Mystress Wyfe.

My li’l mind had gone back to Her edict on rutabagas this morning. When she told me i was eating too many rutabagas i actually made face, i even almost opened my mouth without permission! Mystress Wyfe could tell. But She condescended to permit my morning three-minute imaginary orgasm anyway.

Then She ordered me to iron her socks.

But She was right. Li’l me should eat less rutabagas and more peas. Peas are a green vegetable and everybody knows those are good for you. Good thing her judgment rules in all things.

And i need to be on my best behavior to make sure i earn the real orgasm she’s promised me for next February 30th!

Originally posted 2008-06-09 14:46:33. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Absolute & Binding Male Slave Rules and Contract

Male Slave Conduct Contract Regulations*

Submissive Male Slave Bondage

By Mistress Thionite

[1]Male Slaves are considered as the lowest form of life on this planet. Every
other living thing has a higher rank than that of Male Slave. A Male Slave’s Mistress
may use his Male Slave for any purpose, including, but not limited to, household
duties, sexual gratification, and being loaned out to others for the
exchange of money. There are two types of Male Slaves, Full-Time Male Slaves, and
SessionMale Slaves. Some rules differ for each type, and are described as such
when necessary. When no distinction between Male Slave types is given, the Rule
applies to both types. Full-Time Male Slaves are exactly as the title suggests,
full time. These types are used in household duties, and are under
constant supervision by a Mistress. Session Male Slaves are those who only
occasionally enjoy the sexual aspect of the Mistress/Male Slave life.

[2] Absolute obedience of each of these 35 rules is required. Failure to
comply with any of these rules will result in 25 lashes with the cat-o-nine
tails, belt or cane, for each offense.

[3] Male Slave is not permitted to use pronouns that refer to it as a person.
Only “Male Slave”, and “it”, or something else that shows no personal identity.

[4] Male Slave will not speak unless spoken to by Mistress or any of Mistress’s
associates, except in case of an emergency such as fire, drowning, or other
such event that would require instant help.

[5] Full-Time Male Slave is responsible for keeping its body devoid of hair,
except eyebrows and on the top of its head, either by shaving, waxing or
hair-removal gels/lotions. This will be done with complete supervision by
Mistress. Session Male Slave may be required to arrive at its appointment
completely hairless. This is at the discretion of Mistress.

[6] Full-Time Male Slave is to be naked at all times. Session Male Slave is to be
naked when it arrives for its appointment. The appointment is considered
to have started and/or ended the moment Male Slave steps over Mistress’s
threshold.

[7] Full-Time Male Slave is forbidden to touch its genitals, or ass, except in
accordance of Rules 5, 13 & 14. Session Male Slave is forbidden from touching
its genitals at any time during an appointment.

[8] Immediately upon agreement of becoming Full-Time Male Slave, it agrees to
surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s Male Slave, in the
form of all liquidated bank assets. Male Slave must also forfeit any previous
employment. Male Slave’s immediate family must be notified of Male Slave’s free will
to go into servitude. In return, Mistress agrees to keep in touch with
Male Slave’s family, in the event of family sickness or death. Session Male Slave is
required to surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s
Male Slave at the rate of $50 per hour. Appointments generally do not last more
than one day, unless previously agreed upon by both parties.

[9] Full-Time Male Slave is not permitted to leave Mistress’s residence, for any
reason except for emergency purposes.

[10] Male Slave is not permitted to use any seating other than the floor.

[11] Male Slave is not permitted to use any appliances, electronic devices or
other household items, unless otherwise ordered. These items include, but
are not limited to, stove, refrigerator, microwave, washer/dryer,
television, cell phone, radio, computer, etc.

[12] Male Slave has no privacy.

[13] Full-Time Male Slave will give itself a daily enema while under its
Mistress’s supervision. This will serve as Male Slave’s allotted daily
defecation. Session Male Slave is required to arrive at its appointment,
completely cleaned out.

[14] Full-Time Male Slave is granted permission to relieve its bladder three
times daily, at 8 am, 4 pm and Midnight, provided Mistress is awake. If
Mistress is not awake, or Male Slave is not being used as described in Rule 15, no
bathroom relief shall be granted. Session Male Slave will not be permitted to
relieve any bodily functions during an appointment.

[15] When Full-Time Male Slave is in use, Male Slave must remain within 3 feet of its
Mistress’s side, at all times. “In Use” is considered to be anytime Mistress
is home and awake. Session Male Slave must remain in sight at all times.

[16] When not in use, Full-Time Male Slave will reside in its cage, where its
arms and legs will be shackled, and tethered by its balls with a rope or
chain.

[17] Full-Time Male Slave will be displayed as such when Mistress receives guests.
No effort shall be made by Male Slave to cover up or hide its lowly status from
others. Male Slave is required to undertake all hostess duties, and provide
enough food to satisfy two servings, per person, per each dish made. Male Slave
will also provide all refreshments, and offer its mouth as an ashtray for
those guests who smoke.

[18] Male Slave shall regularly be tested for Obedience, to ensure proper
compliance.

[19] All orders given to Male Slave must be obeyed immediately, without
question, and without hesitation.

[20] Male Slave shall assume any position when commanded. Positions are as
follows: (A) “Inspect”- Male Slave will stand, legs spread apart to its
shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (B) “Present”-
Male Slave will stand, legs together, hands clasped tightly behind its back.
(C) “Kneel”- Male Slave will drop to floor on its knees, legs spread apart to
its shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (D) “Lay”-
Male Slave will drop to its stomach, legs spread as wide apart as possible,
hands clasped tightly behind its head, elbows touching the ground. (E)
“Wall”- Male Slave will stand against nearest wall, hands clasped tightly behind
its head, and arch its body out as far as possible so that only its elbows
and heels are touching anything solid. (F) “Relax”- Male Slave will drop
facedown to the floor, then raise itself off the floor and arch its back as
high as possible, with only fingertips [not entire hands!] and tips of toes
touching the floor.

[21] When Male Slave is not being commanded, it will sit on the floor, hands
wrapped around Mistress’s ankles.

[22] Full-Time Male Slave will be locked into a chastity device at all times,
and permitted to cum only as Mistress sees fit. SessionMale Slaves may or may
not be kept in a chastity device, dependent upon Mistress’s desire. Male Slave
will be frequently edged toward cumming, but not be permitted to do so.
If, during an edging session Male Slave “accidentally” cums without permission,
it will receive an additional 10 lashes.

[23] Male Slave is required to have a butt plug in its anal cavity at all times.

[24] If Male Slave must relieve any bodily functions other than allotted times,
it must ask permission. If permission is asked, Male Slave will be punished for
breaking Rule 4 and receive an additional 25 lashes. Permission may or may
not be granted, dependent upon present activities and/or Mistress’s mood.

[25] When there is more than one Full-Time Male Slave in residence,Male Slaves are
not permitted to speak to each other in accordance with Rule 4. There are
video and audio surveillance devices located throughout Mistress’s home,
which are in use 24/7. If Male Slave is discovered to disobey this rule, an
additional 50 lashes will be served as punishment to all parties involved.

[26] Male Slave understands that it will be subjected to any and all sorts of
varying things, including, but not limited to, urination, pain, and
bondage.

[27] Male Slave will immediately apologize, and request forgiveness of any
wrongdoing.

[28] When Male Slave is answering a question or commandment, Male Slave must reply in
as few words as possible. Male Slave will always end each sentence with either
“Sir”, “Mistress”, or “Mistress [insert name here]“.

[29] Full-Time Male Slave will be fed twice each day, 7 am and 7 p.m. Meals
will consist of whatever Mistress deems appropriate. Session Male Slave will be
fed if an appointment lasts longer than 9 hours. Male Slave can refuse any
meal; however, each refusal of a meal is punishable by 25 additional
lashings. Full-Time Male Slave will also receive a 36-hour fast of any food or
drink.

[30] In the case of sickness or death of anyone in Full-Time Male Slave’s
immediate family, Male Slave will be notified immediately and granted a
temporary Bereavement Leave of all household duties and allowed to join its
family, with Mistress’s supervision. Rules 3 – 5, 7, 10 – 14, 19 – 24, 27 -
29, 31 & 34 will still apply. In addition, no effort will be made by Male Slave
to cover up or hide its lowly status from others. In addition, Male Slave’s
safeword will not apply to this situation, nor will it get Male Slave out of any
service during Bereavement Leave. Male Slave must always remain within sight of
Mistress. There are no exceptions. Any and all punishments earned during
Bereavement Leave will be given immediately upon return to full service.
All “off-duty” time accumulated by Male Slave during its reprieve will be added
on at the end of its service, and tripled.

[31] No refunds for Male Slave servitude will be given, for any reason,
whatsoever.

[32] Full-Time Male Slave agrees to a minimum mandatory 90-day contract, as a
trial period for both itself and Mistress. If during that time Male Slave does
not wish to continue service, or if Male Slave’s service is deemed
unsatisfactory by Mistress within that time, servitude will end on the 91st
day. If Mistress agrees to keep Male Slave longer, a new contract of no less than
six months will be signed and agreed upon. Each subsequent contract
renewal will carry an additional three months. For example, if Male Slave
passes the 90-day trial period, and the following six-month contract, the
following contract would be for nine months, the next would be twelve
months, and so on.

[33] Upon agreement of becoming Male Slave, it must commit to memory a safeword
of Mistress’s choosing. The safeword will release Male Slave from any situation
where it feels it is being used too roughly. If the safeword is used,
Male Slave understands that it will be punished for attempting to defy its
Mistress, and agrees to submit to a future punishment of Mistress’s choosing.

[34] Male Slave must endure any and all punishments without speaking, swearing
or other vocal statements. Sobbing, wailing, shrieking, etc., are
permitted, as long as no words are uttered. If any words are uttered
during punishment, an additional five lashes will be administered, per
offense.

[35] Male Slave is required to memorize each of these 35 Rules, verbatim, and
must be able to correctly state any and all Rules at any given time, under
any and all circumstances. Ten punishment lashes will be given for each
word missed or incorrectly added by Male Slave during recitation.

( * NB: I know some of you think this is the way to live in real life. But the words above are for fantasies. None of you could actually handle living like this.)

Boy on Her Leash

There was a recent rash of comments about treating boys as F/m submissive males. Even cultivating their submissiveness.

In the real world even a sign of that might get you into big trouble.

Melissa Means of Rome, Georgia got herself charged with cruelty to children for pulling her son by a leash.

ROME, Ga. — A Verizon Wireless employee captured shocking video of a mother dragging her child through the store by a monkey backpack leash.

Caught On Camera: Child Dragged Through Ga. Store On Leash

Originally posted 2009-08-06 03:40:02. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Heterosexuality Can Be Funny

My newest project – really an old one that moved – is mostly images (at least right now) with a strong bias toward funny heterosexuality and the physical beauty of women.

Erotic Amusements

Why can’t you be like Endicott?

Endicott helps to cook the steak
Endicott helps to wash the plates
Endicott puts the kids to bed
Endicott reads a book to them

(Why can’t you be like Endicott?)

Endicott loves Tribena so
Endicott puts her on a pedestal
Endicott’s wish is her command but
Endicott don’t make no demands

Endicott’s always back in time
Endicott’s not the cheatin’ kind
Endicott’s full of compliment
Endicott’s such a gentleman

(Why can’t you be like Endicott?)

Endicott, Kid Creole & Coconuts>

Originally posted 2008-05-24 14:30:23. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Femdom is Unbiblical!

A fellow asks why most women don’t seem to want to dominate men. He gets some mighty unhelpful answers:

Probably never really works because its not biblical. It’s not the way God made our relationships to be. So no matter how dominating the woman wants to be, there is something in her that wants a strong man that feels in charge. Because thats the way its supposed to be!

I’m a stone cold atheist so this bit of Bible thumping just makes me laugh. (She should see the Christian Femdom site.)

I used to have a born again pest who left lots and lots of hostile comments and rants that I never approved. He must have had an awful relationship with some woman and will spend the rest of his life believing that she was an agent of Satan.

Many men like Female-led relationships or Wife-led marriages. But very few women respond positively. Why?

Originally posted 2010-07-09 15:36:19. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Durham, NC?

Durham North Carolina

Duham NC Femdom Dominatrix

Don’t fret I’m not looking to meet you or pester you in any way.

I just found myself wondering if any BDSM folks (gender, role unimportant) who follow this site living Durham, NC (where I live).