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		<title>Men Love Orgasm Denial &amp; Chastity &#8211; Why?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 13:01:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Men addicted to chastity who want women to deny them orgasm and make them wear chastity belts. What are their motivations?</p><p><p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While there are certainly women who enjoy enforcing orgasm denial on men. But is the supposedly submissive male who seems addicted to being kept chaste. Who push it, won&#8217;t shut up about and often demand it.</p>
<p>Below a few speculations about the wellsprings and motivation that make men crave to be forbidden orgasms.</p>
<p><strong>Male Chastity 1 : Erotic Play</strong></p>
<p><em>
<p>Orgasm Denial for Hotter Sex</p>
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<p><img alt="Lust for Love" src="http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/male-chastity-husband-orgasm-denial/lust-for-love.jpg" height="422" width="300" /></p>
<p>Boosting the intensity of sexual experiences is probably the most common motivation to male chastity as erotic play. Postponing sex results in a more passionate, intense experience when the period of denial ends. </p>
<p>For the woman to tease the male enhances the intensity.</p>
<p><strong>Male Chastity 2 : Power Exchange</strong></p>
<p><em>
<p>Orgasm Denial as Pure BDSM</p>
<p></em></p>
<p><img alt="Bill Ward cover art: A Man-Trap Pussy." src="http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/male-chastity-husband-orgasm-denial/bill-ward-cover-art-a-man-trap-pussy.jpg" height="376" width="227" /><br />Bill Ward was so tasteful.</p>
<p>Male orgasm denial is an intimate and direct mode of exerting authority for the dominant partner. Male chastity is a very pure and simple way to exercise the D/s dynamic. Submitting allows the submissive male the pleasure of his role. </p>
<p><strong>Male Chastity 3 : Manliness</strong></p>
<p><em>
<p>Male Chastity as Macho</p>
<p></em></p>
<p><img alt="His First Million Women" src="http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/male-chastity-husband-orgasm-denial/hist-first-million-women.jpg" height="462" width="300" /> <br /><em>The story of the world&#8217;s only fertile man.</em></p>
<p>Needing for your sexuality to be controlled is a confirmation of virility. Lustfulness can be seen as strong and macho.  This is not unlike affectionately calling a female slutty.</p>
<p><strong>Male Chastity 4 : Sexual Guilt</strong></p>
<p><em>
<p>Chastity as Expiation</p>
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<p><img alt="The Lust Pigs" src="http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/male-chastity-husband-orgasm-denial/lust-pigs.jpg" height="455" width="300" /></p>
<p>Some men feel guilty about their sexual desires and needs.Perhaps even guilty for being male. They may have been raised to regard sexuality as sinful. And women as pure. This perhaps is the mindset most likely to lead to belief in female supremacy.</p>
<p><strong>Male Chastity 5 : Gender Dysphoria</strong></p>
<p><em>
<p>Chaste Sissies</p>
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<p>Gender identity dysphoria surely motivates some genetic males&#8217; desire to be made chaste. Their penises feel unnatural, even &#8216;bad.&#8217; Denial &#8211; along with sissyfication &#8211; enables them to come closer to being who they feel they really are.
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<p><strong>Male Chastity 6 : Misbehavior</strong></p>
<p><em>Passive Aggressive Intransigence</em></p>
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<p>Part of the lore ( &#8211; assortment of urban legends? &#8211; ) of enforced orgasm denial is that the male becomes less attentive, helpful, perhaps becomes a downright shit once allowed an orgasm. How many times have I read this online? Countless. Examples from real life? None.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying some men don&#8217;t experience some sort of psychic droop post-orgasm: that is <em>biochemistry</em>, not <em>misbehavior</em>.</p>
<p>But a man whose behavior substantially changes, becomes markedly unhelpful after having is either someone a woman shouldn&#8217;t be deeply involved with or who wants to be put back in his CB-6000. </p>
<p>A sort of invisible topping from the bottom. He &#8211; probably unconsciously &#8211; wants to return to a submissive, controlled status. So he insures that he deserves to have his cock locked back up. </p>
<p>And you never, ever know how much people say online applied to life as it is actually lived offline. </p>
<p><strong>Male Chastity 7 : Bondage</strong></p>
<p><em>Material D/s Symbolism</em></p>
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<p>Submissive straight men, by their very nature, desire and need to feel under the thumb ( &#8211; heel &#8211; ) of a dominant woman. To be subdued by her.  Often &#8211; on some level &#8211; helpless. </p>
<p>That is the root of the general appeal of bondage for all submissive persons. Physical limitation can be a satisfyingly unambiguous experience of a top&#8217;s control. </p>
<p>The CB-6000 aside from the obvious purpose of male orgasm regulation is a bondage device, albeit a very specialized one. It is bondage a man can experience when away from a dominant, even in public without embarrassment. Instances of thwarted erections are frustrating yet joyous highpoints of his submission.  </p>
<p>A male chastity device is a tangible symbol of the power exchange.</p>
<p>You, of course, have your own speculations and beliefs. Tell me about them: leave a comment.</p>
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		<title>Orgasm Denial &#8211; The Woman&#8217;s Choice</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 21:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I profited greatly from reading Akasha back when she was active on usenet (or Google Groups as many people now know of these discussion forums). Her guide is a classic and I quote words certain men should keep in mind when seeking to encourage their wife or girlfriend into female dominance:</p>
<blockquote><p>Your fantasies may include chastity devices or more severe treatment or humiliation regarding your inability to have release. Back off. This is about having her enjoy the concept of controlling your pleasure, and she must start with what is fun and not complicated. Chastity devices can be expensive and bulky, and in practice are often hard to implement. If she really enjoys controlling you verbally, she may go down that path, so make sure she has fun. Men are often tempted to create their own rituals and rules regarding &#8220;not being allowed to cum&#8221; because they have done it for so long all by themselves with a make believe femdom, or someone they met on the Internet. DO NOT try to mold your mate into this person. Let her find HER style. Got it? Bottom line again &#8212; let her find out what works for her!</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>Orgasm Manipulation</em></strong></p>
<p>More reports, the last at least for now.</p>
<p><strong>Extreme Frustration</strong></p>
<p>My girlfriend regularly ties me to her bed after giving me 2 viagra to prolong the teasing of my cock she masturbates me very slowly building to orgasm again and again but stops when im about 2maybe 3 strokes away from cumming.she loves making me beg plead and scream to cum she loves to laugh at my frustration it makes her so wet.she recently invited her girlfriend to help her frustrate me their favorite way 2do this at the moment is for both of them to lick the underside of cock head while im wearing a cock ring it drives me insane with need to cum they verbally tease me asking if i want 2 cum but i cant answer as im gagged so they take my lack of answer as a sign to tease me way past screaming point its cruel but i dearly love it.</p>
<p><strong>Pinched Glans</strong></p>
<p>Many years ago when we were courting my wife decided to build up my orgasm then as I shot she squeezed the tip of my glan to stop the spunk form shooting out. I felt my spunk build up and build up as she masturbated my shaft then shoot to immediately start a frantic pulsing wich went on and on for some time subsiding to leave a dull pain in my groin. She said that was great I could feel your spunk pumping to get out but I decide when it can come out now so you better get use to it. After we married this became her fetish, Being a nurse she thought up all sorts of ways to ruine my orgasm as painfully as possible.</p>
<p><strong>Clamped Penis</strong></p>
<p>As mentioned before my wife developed a fetish for controlling my spunk and always ruined my orgasm . When she wanted to ride my hard shaft she would put a clip on the base of my shaft to close the urethra. She liked to tie me down then put the clip on and get me real hard before she mounted my shaft and rode me to loud orgasms. I would try not to shoot as I knew it was painful but after a while I would feel my spunk build up and build up then shoot with great force to immediately start a painful pumping spasm which sometimes went on and on for a long time before subsiding leaving a strong pain in my groin. My shaft would usually stay hard so she would continue rindeing my shaft for more orgasms. This was very uncomfortable for me as my shaft had a ticklish feeling but after a while would feel aroused again. She would usually stop for a sip of wine which she would pass to me by kissing my lips. She would play with my shaft and get it hard then ride it to more orgasms. Sometimes my spunk would build up and shoot for a second time which was more painful which seem to make her horny . She would put a thick leather glove on her left hand and grasp my shaft tight so my circumcised gland would bulge then pick up her small flogger with her right hand and start whipping my bulging gland. The pain was intense and I would cry out which seem to make her more horny and continue whipping soft then hard for a long time until she was building up for an orgasm. She would stop put a condom on my bruised and bleeding gland then ride me to a loud orgasm. She would then fall forward on to me and we would embrace.</p>
<p>   <em>
<p>Any any or your orgasms been ruined? What is that like for you? If you haven&#8217;t do you hope it will happen someday? </p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Men Who Enjoy Being Denied Sexual Pleasure</strong></p>
<p><strong>Sick!</strong></p>
<p>A vanilla person wandered by and offered this insight:
</p>
<blockquote><p>Sick women; even sicker men. And sickest of all, those men who read about it and get excited.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Another commentor corrected him:</p>
<blockquote><p>You are wrong. Its harmless fun between loving couples and requires alot of trust. My girlfriend uses the head of my penis to masturbate herself to orgasm. I cannot cum as I am over stimulated by the whole thing, and find myself trapped in a curious world of pleasure and pain. The moans I make in my discomfort add to my girlfriends pleasure who cums multiple times, then when she finally has had enough she allows me to masturbate whilst staring into her eyes as her tounge flicks out into my mouth. Occasionally she will let me cum, tapping my balls lightly as I do, others she will hit my balls hard enough to take all desire of masturbation away from me, at which point she will walk away and leave me to recover. We love each other very much.</p>
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<p><strong>Weeks Without Orgasm</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>ruined orgasms, is painful but sweet,as my wife, loves for me to go weeks without cumming. as i have to go down on her as she say, or put it in her so she can feel a hard dick. i am not too cum until told too, i have go fast or slow ,after she has all the orgasm she wants she says take it out or she does it. she graps my balls and pulls them up in the air hard until my dick goes soft. i go down and kiss her pussy , and i sleep nude. i am not to play with myself never. as i steal reb. once .i didn&#8217;t get to cum before she saw me. she whip my dick and balls so much they hart for weeks. and steal had to gave it to her . it was 3 month before she let me cum again.and then i had to eat it.the best part is she cums harder when she make me have a ruined orgasm. and she does it as she seating on my face. as iam eating and drying her up. ps. she glad i find this place .and so am i thanks</p>
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<p><strong>Total Lack of Sexual Pleasure</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>wow, some lucky people there!! I was wondering if anyone knew some devious ways to truly ruin an orgasm, the whole enjoyment of the masturbating and cumming thing. I am heavily into having my pleasure decided by a female based on my past performance or behaviour or just because she thinks i do/dont deserve the pleasure. Abandoning is obvious but what about ways to take *all* pleasure away. Perhaps weeks of denial followed by 2 hours of porn and then a 30 second wank into a blocked O, things like that that truly take away the whole enjoyment. For me the stroking working up to even a ruined orgasm is so enjoyable and if my mistress says i dont deserve *any* pleasure i want to be able to show her your suggestions.Anyone? Especially interested in ways of making an abandoned orgasm even less stimulating wth only the tinest drop of cum dribbling out each time to prolong the torture</p>
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<p><strong>Month Wearing CB-6000</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>I was once locked in a CB6k for a month. when we met, i was secured to a chair facing a TV. cock unlocked, made me watch a full length sm movie. i was timed me with a stop watch whenever my cock gets hard enough to lift off the chair. after the movie, i was masturbated for the duration of the time i was hard during the movie and ordered not to cum. punishment was, the jerking will continue for the full duration whether or not i cum. if i manage to hold off cumming, i will be given 30sec to explode. i managed it throughout without cumming, but the 30 sec&#8230; my cock was not touched at all! i was locked back into the cb6k for another month totally frustrated.</p>
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<p><strong>A Question</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>The only women in my long life that enjoyed ruining my orgasms, or denying them, were also the only women I became close to who had never experienced a true vaginal orgasm. Anyone else notice this?</p>
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<p>What do you think?</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 12:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Denying Men Sexual Pleasure</strong></p>
<p>More tales of manipulating male sexuality.
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<p>Prostate Massage</p>
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<blockquote><p> have been in chastity since the CB2000 came out. It was largely unsatisfactory as my scrotum was too tight and bunched up. A long period of ball stretching did wonders and by the time the CB3000 appeared, I could wear it for quite long periods. All my ejaculations are supervised and controlled by my wife and I am only permitted if I have been a very good boy in the preceeding month. If I have been less than satisfactory, I will be given a ruined orgasm, which to me is worse than no orgasm at all. I am secured (handcuffed behind my back), and leaned over a low hassock on the coffee table. The wife uses her gloved finger to massage my prostate while very slowly pulling/stroking my penis. As soon as she feels any contractions internally, she stops the massage and releases my penis. After a few cycles of this, I am desperate to cum, but she has become an expert in judging how close to the edge she can bring me without triggering an actual ejaculation. Eventually, just at one of my impending orgasms, she will release my penis and keep slowly massaging my prostate. A few globs of semen will dribble out in a totally ruined ejaculation onto the saucer below me. After I stop dripping, she repeats the sequence over and over. It usually takes five or six cycles of this until my dribbling has emptied me completely and no more semen can be produced. The frustration can be incredible and I am often &#8220;humping the air&#8221;, (to her amusement)desperately trying to get any stimulation at all when she ceases her massage and stroking. Of course, when it&#8217;s all over, she &#8220;recycles&#8221; what has dripped into the saucer.</p>
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<p><strong>Denying Her Slave</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>M&#8217;lady enjoys stroking Her cock to the brink of orgasm and denying Her slave the oppurtunity to have an orgasm, and repeats this process of stroking and teasing until Her slave is going crazy with frustration and begging to even be milked even though he knows that he will be even more frustrated after he feels Her cum dribble from Her cock&#8230;</p>
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<p><strong>Trained to Hate Orgasms</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>	 i have recently got into ruined orgasms after years of enforced orgasm control both self and from my Mistress, i have been trained to hate cuming and g ofor long periods with no orgasm whilst masturbating every day, i have such an empty feeling after cuming and a ruined orgasm adds to the feeling of worthlessness and reduces the feeling of male worth, i usually asl to cum straight into my own mouth when i do cum properly its the only reason i can see for a full ejaculation. ruining the orgasm also maintains the sexual frustration whilst removing the full feeling i enjoy so much.</p>
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<p><strong>Forbidden to Move<br />
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<blockquote><p>My girlfriend has trained me to remain completely still while she milks my cock, teases my balls and nipples, and anus. I cannot react in any way, and must continue to have normal conversation with her, or makes me tell her how submissive i feel and how my cock belongs to my mistress. The whole time she keeps me on the brink of orgasm, not knowing if she will let me cum. Sometimes, after being denied orgasm, I am ordered to sleep behind behind mistress in the spooning position with my cock inside her, but I cannot move.</p>
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<p>Tell me about your ruined orgasms.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 09:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Unenjoyable Ejaculations</strong></p>
<p>Ruined orgasm fact or fantasy? You decide.</p>
<p><strong>Tease &#038; Denial</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>I love ruined orgasms. I have shoot a lot of tease and denial and ruined orgasm videos. Recently, I have been hiring a lot of new girls and porn guys instead of slaves. I tell the girls I hire what they will be doing before the guy gets there and they have all been extremely excited while some have been a little freaked out. I don&#8217;t tell the guy what will happen because I love to see the look on his face when it happens and there is nothing he can do about it. I also love to watch how much fun the girl is having. I have done sessions for years with slaves that were into orgasm control, ruined orgasm etc and I have tons of fun with them but there is something really fun about doing this to someone who has never experienced it or watching a female experience doing it for the first time. I did a session with a new 19 year old dom that I just shot in a tease and denial Ruined Orgasm video last night. I had been seeing the slave for about 10 years and although he likes tons of heavy cbt I have never ruined his orgasm. For years I send him home from our sessions with a beat up cock very turned on to have sex with his wife. This time was different, as I trampled him the other dom was slapping his cock as hard as she could. Out of nowhere, she started stroking his cock really fast he started to cum and she quickly blocked it removed her hand. With each spurt of orgasm she kept blocking and removing her hand. He was tied up and could not move so she kept stroking it trying to get him hard so she could do it again.</p>
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<p><strong>The &#8220;Spot&#8221;</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>like squeezing firmly at the base of the penis to prevent release of fluid there is a spot between the penis and anus that, when pressure is applied, also prevents release. it can be felt by a small indentation and pushing on it with a single finger seems to work very well. have fun.</p>
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<p><strong>Three Factors</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>It seems to me 3 other factors can reduce the fun. One is what i call the over beaten beast &#8211; that is the fantasy getting you there while mastrubation is done is removed again and again. Eventually it is almost impossible to cum and when you do it is limp, this less enjoyable. The other is water, i don&#8217;t get the same enjoyment when i am mastrubated wet. Hot and cold Last anbody any experience ?</p>
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<p><strong>Erotic Power of a Man&#8217;s Mistress</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Yesterday I could feel the erotic power of my mistress as if she was in my room. But she was not. She was on a far away distance and ordered me by telephone. I could hear how horny she was and how she enjoyed possessing me. Since 10 days she owns me and it feels like it has never been else before. Since that day she has forbidden me any orgasm and I don’t know why, but I obey her in every way. And it turns m on. She enjoys knowing her slave obeys her in every detail. At first she wrote she expected me to mail her first how I love to be hers. If my words shouldn’t satisfy her, she would neglect me that day. But I know how to satisfy her.. I had to lay down on the floor, bottom up, a slave waiting for his mistress’ phonecall. When she would phone me -without speaking one word- I had to whip myself “as long as you think you need it. When you think it’s enough, you ask me to hold on.”. Of course she was not satisfied and ordered to give 25 more till my little ass was red and my cock hard. She told me how she was laying on her bed, naked and relaxed like a lazy animal using her vibrator exactly as she wanted to. She told me though my good behaviour not to expect any orgasm that day. While it arouses her to know I was locked up in her will and I was only there to please her. Then she laughed and ordered me to drip hot wax on every part of my naked body, meanwhile telling her in every detail how I seduced and fucked my wife the last time I had the opportunity. “And I don’t want to hear any thrill in your voice when the wax is dripping painfully at your skin and specially your hard cock, cause you know where I want them the most, my naughty boy”. It was difficult to obey her strict wishes, the wax was dripping everywhere, also at my hard cock and that was very painful. So I could not control my voice and obey her high standard and she immediately ordered me to slap my hard cock with a leather cane. “Starting with 20 times”, she said, “and be happy that I am not so cruel, because I could order you 100!” I did not know what was happening to me, because this slapping is the most painful punishment and every time I have to do it, she gets enormous orgasms because my pain turns her on. And so it does me! I begged her please to train and discipline me that I could slap my hard cock 100 times for her!! She laughed and said that she was not the person to decline my request. She ordered me to slap ..now.. and.. now, she dictated my rhythm and forced me to listen to her fourth or fifth delicious orgasm. Then my mistress ordered me by her horny voice to jerk myself. As if she was not so strict at once. But when she heard I was coming, she stopped me and laughed. And repeated this orgasm denial several times till I was so desperate that I begged her to stop torturing me this way. With her sweetest voice she said: “My little slave, you may come now but I want you to ruin your orgasm. When you feel you will come, I want only a poor little stream of sperm is coming out, but I don’t want any exaltation for you. Do you understand? Jerk for me. Now!” How can I describe the feelings of desire and disappointment of my tortured body and mind? It is impossible. Even for me… Only when you, men and boys, will have such a splendid perverse mistress as mine, you could imagine that feeling. Thank you, my perverse mistress for using me this way</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 23:02:20 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>More enforced chastity than ruined orgasms but part of the same thread.</p>
<p><strong>Only One Orgasm a Month</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>My mistress allows me to come once a month, and insists that I retain a desire for pussy even though I will never have hers or any other. On my day, I am not allowed to touch myself and she does not touch me either, this is where the pussy desire comes in&#8230;.she purchased a fleshlight and takes great delight in reminding me it is the only thing which will ever give my cock pleasure, not even my own hands ever will. I must bring it to her and then kneel in front of the sofa with a towel around it, then I push it in between the cushions at cock height. This routine of course has me harder than hard already, especially after the month long wait. Then she forces me to lick it like I lick her, then I am allowed to lube it up. After so long, even sliding my fingers inside this plastic pussy nearly makes me cum. At this point, she ties my hands behind me with a belt so I cannot grab my cock in a state of frenzy during what comes next. Now, I am told to fuck the fleshlight for her pleasure&#8230;.but the difficult part is, I am not even allowed to penetrate it all the way. Only the head of my cock is allowed inside the fleshlight, and I am in constant danger when fucking it because if the entire head actually disappears inside it, she will immediately make me stop and lock me up for another month. I have missed at least four cums because of this and it is infuriating..once, twice in a row. Once, early on, I totally lost my head with desire to be buried deep inside something, anything, even this plastic pussy, and for the insanely intense, never equaled by anything, 2 or 3 seconds all the way inside it&#8217;s silkyness I was immediately locked up for my longest period ever, four months. Following this four months I actually had premature ejaculation on my first time out just from the lubing up phase&#8230;after so long and after licking it extra long to please her, my cock was like concrete and when she told me to lube it, I exploded all over the floor when my fingers slid inside. Mistress was not pleased, but I was a good boy that entire month and so she didn&#8217;t punish me further. The tension of trying to feel as much fake pussy as I can without penetrating too deeply and losing it all is extremely difficult, as is the fact that in addition, I cannot come inside anything or anyone, ever again, including the fleshlight, and she never allows me more than ten of the tiny strokes at a time. If she feels the whim or thinks I need to be reminded who is boss, she will order me out no matter what number of strokes I am on, and if I do not pull out immediately, my session is over. When my cock is about to explode, I am to pull out (from only the head being in, what torture!) and since I cannot touch it, all my orgasms since this began are ruined ones. By the time I am worked up enough from the denial and the tip only torture, my cock jerks and bucks like a banshee, but feeling only cold air as my cum spurts and then dribbles. If I have been a good boy, she allows me to aim the spurting and dribbling at the plastic pussy instead of the towel, always reminding me the first inch or two of the fleshlight is all my cock will ever feel again, and that I will never come in or on her again, and that the spunk dripping onto the plastic pussy, under her strict supervision, is as close to her as I will ever be. Following this routine I never actually get soft, I am usually hornier than when I started, and as she locks me back up for another month I am already fantasizing about the next tens seconds at a time trying not to ram all the way in past the first couple inches of plastic pussy in one month&#8217;s time. It drives me wild and I can&#8217;t help it. Last month she had a friend come over and she let the friend dictate the ten count to me, both were fully dressed and drinking wine, it was pretty humiliating when I spunked onto the pussy and they both started laughing.</p>
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<p>Three Orgasms a Year</p>
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<blockquote><p>My wife only agrees to masturbate me once per month and only after putting numbing cream and a condom on my little dick. She almost always gets too tired to allow me an orgasm, and if I try to touch myself to achieve my completion, she kicks me in the balls so hard that it knocks me down. On average I get to cum about 3 times per year, yet she forces me to perform oral sex on her regularly. She never ever allows me to penetrate her anymore, since I am never able to last more that about 20 seconds inside her.</p>
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		<title>Ruined Orgasm Stories I</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 14:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 2006 I wrote a note about the F/m practice of ruining a man&#8217;s orgasm. It has continued to draw comments over the years. I thought I&#8217;d share some of those comments with you over a fes posts here on Female Led Relationships.</p>
<p><strong>Chastity Control on a Sissy Sub</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>I have practised Chastity Control on my sissy sub for two years. There nothing funnier than ruining his orgasm after hes waited two months for it. I basically restrain him so he cant move, then masturbatedhim. At the moment he cums, I squeeze the base of his cock HARD between my thumb and finger. This complete ruins the orgasm, stopping the muscle contractions, and leaving and the semen to dribble out. This I follow with a stiff whipping, and the cock restraint is placed straight back on. This is usually enough to produce some very pleasing tears of pain and frustration, and of course, total obedience for two more months.</p>
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<p><strong>Punished for an Erect Penis</strong></p>
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If I ever arrive for a spanking with an erection, I am told to get a towel and return for a milking. She calmly lowers my panties just enough to remove my hard penis, which is stroked methodically and without much talk in a very businesslike manner. The moment any spasm is detected, she lets go. My hands are behind my back and I ejaculate in a most unsatisfactory display of stupid male behavior. I almost dance around as my penis is looking for something&#8230;anything&#8230;to touch, but, alas, none is forthcoming. When I&#8217;ve stopped dripping, (I&#8217;ve messed the towel, of course), she simply pulls my panties back up. When I&#8217;d normally have them lowered for the bare bottom part of my spanking, instead, they&#8217;re pulled up into my bottom crack, leaving my bottom exposed for the spanking I&#8217;ve earned, but now my penis and other private parts are encased in the nylong panties. My penis is VERY sensitive and spankings are more painful just after a milking&#8230;.and, of course, being milked is a humiliating way to start my punishment.</p>
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<p>Ruin Orgasms Repeatedly</p>
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<blockquote><p>A side benefit to ruining an orgasm is the mistress is able to do it more than once, since a satisfying orgasm has not been reached. I love to combine a ruined orgasm with some kind of pain, esp. ballbusting. Not only does the male not receive an orgasm when his body expects it, but testicular pain is substituted. Paddling the testicles with my fingers as he&#8217;d dribbling out his ruined orgasm is very amusing for me. </p>
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<p><strong>Explicity Fantasy</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Fantasize: After a ruined orgasm the slave has a short time limit to acheive ogasm. Of course the mistresses limit is always seconds to short. OR She ties the base of his penis tightly, after full erection &#038; watches with amusemsnt as the poor thing pounds away until she is satisfied with its colour.</p>
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		<title>Chemical Sissy  &#8211; Sexual Frustration</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 11:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eudaemonia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Intensive sexual frustration drives lonely masochistic men to extremely silly behavior. </p><p><p>
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<p>I got this comment* on one of my blogs this morning:</p>
<blockquote><p>Try What My Mistress Girlfriend uses instead of a Penis Plug which has to be taken out at some point. A catheter tube that has a Locking Plug on the end. For days She makes me Hold my Pee. then on my knees with my hands on my nipples She makes me pinch and twist them till I have forgotten the pain in my belly before She unlocks the p-lug and lets me pee My Chastity tube hole is where the plug fits in the Catheter. She tried a Penis Plug but decided it could not stay in long enough.</p>
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<p>He also posted this:</p>
<blockquote><p>Chastity has me semi Castrated and Hormones finished the job. I can not cum nor have any kind of sex but my Girlfriend fucks who she wants. My dick no longer is free it is locked in Chastity for 12 years now. My Girlfriend fed me Hormones for 7n years now I am a Castrated by Chastity and Chemical Sissy now and I have began to like being a girl since 4 years ago. Is there no hope for me? Am I lost to Her Devious whims forever ? I find myself wanting Her lovers to want to Fuck me and She just laughs at me as She makes me watch them fuck Her. She Cold Milks me in front of Her lovers to show them the Control She has taken over me. I can not even feel the cum come out of me because everything is frozen numb. When I cry because of the utter Humiliation of Being Milked with a group of men watching She Whips me all over and lets them kick me. She says She picked me because She saw She Could Control me in no time and force me to be what She wanted me to be. I was raised to never hit a Woman ,and She took advantage of that from the start. She keeps me in an Iron Chastity Belt that needs four keys and a Combination lock. I sleep naked except for the Chastity In a Standing position with my hands chained above my head in a Standing Birdcage made for me. When my Chastity is off my hands are tied and a Blindfold is locked on me. I have never seen my Genitals in 12 years. that is why I say I am Castrated.</p>
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<p>I get demented comments from guys all the time. Particularly the Female Supremacist Sissy Sluts. Imagine what violent, volcanic sexual frustration they must feel to go about posting their fantasies as their life history. </p>
<p>( * Spelling corrected.)</p>
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		<title>Male Chastity &amp; Passive Aggressive Intransigence</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 09:25:49 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Part of the lore ( &#8211; assortment of urban legends? &#8211; ) of enforced orgasm denial is that the male becomes less attentive, helpful, perhaps becomes a downright shit once allowed an orgasm. How many times have I read this online? Countless. Examples from real life? None.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying some men don&#8217;t experience some sort of psychic droop post-orgasm: that is <em>biochemistry</em>, not <em>misbehavior</em>.</p>
<p>But a man whose behavior substantially changes, becomes markedly unhelpful after having is either someone a woman shouldn&#8217;t be deeply involved with or who wants to be put back in his CB-6000. </p>
<p>A sort of invisible topping from the bottom. He &#8211; probably unconsciously &#8211; wants to return to a submissive, controlled status. So he insures that he deserves to have his cock locked back up. </p>
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