Tantric Sex: the man is taught to have non-ejaculatory orgasms allowing him to experience something like the multiple orgasms enjoyed by women.

Originally posted 2007-08-10 15:15:59. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Enforced male chastity regimens sometimes but not always include a male chastity device like the Curve, CB6000 and other more obscure and expensive MCDs.

Some, adopting a purist stance, claim that is a man requires a MCD for orgasm control, claim that the man is not genuinely submissive. A flawed perspective.

It assumes there’s a litmus test for a quality known as true submission. That there is one way and no other way for a man to surrender to the loving female authority of his girlfriend, mistress or wife.

Many of these devices are not really inescapable. Even though he might be able to get out of it some men are probably able to practice self-denial only with the aid of a MCD because they need an extra barrier to enable them to control their erotic appetites. It is a help.

Some men treasure a MCD as a physical symbol of his surrender to the woman in his life. A binding that is always present even when he is away from her.

Baldly: there are men who need penis bondage to help them eroticize the experience. Without it the experience can become flat, dull: boring and lose all value. And they enjoy the reward / punishment games that determine when the MCD will be removed.

Wearing a male chastity device is not sign of failure or insincerity. Rejecting the psychology of the individual man is foolish at best.

Originally posted 2008-05-01 15:12:29. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Orgasm Denial Makes Sex Better

Boosting the thrill of sexual experiences is probably the most common motivation for forcing a man to endure. Postponing sex results in a more passionate, intense experience when the period of denial ends.

For the woman to tease the male enhances the intensity.

Originally posted 2010-12-24 06:51:05. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Needing for your sexuality to be controlled is a confirmation of virility. Lustfulness can be seen as strong and macho. This is not unlike affectionately calling a female slutty.

A man who does note have strong sexual desires is often seen as a wimp.

Originally posted 2010-12-27 07:02:25. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

That a man should be subjected to complete and total orgasm denial is one of those funny little things you sometimes run across. Particularly in the out of control comments some men leave on LFA / FLR blogs.

Funny isn’t it how the image never, ever being allowed to orgasm excites some guys. A sure sign that someone’s fantasies are out of control. They doubtlessly wank at the prospect of being forbidden to wank.

Much, much more rarely – professional online dominatrices aside – to you see women advocate doing this to men.

People who practice sanity-aware consensual orgasm denial in real life often note that when taken too far chastity becomes boring. Often instead of creating the suffering hunger men imagine it causes the male sex drive to flatline, to die.

The chastity game becomes pointless and boring.

So wank to permanent orgasm denial if you enjoy it. But never forget that in a real relationship it is just a plain nutty idea.

Originally posted 2008-05-04 23:58:16. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Material D/s Symbolism

Submissive straight men, by their very nature, desire and need to feel under the thumb ( – heel – ) of a dominant woman. To be subdued by her. Often – on some level – helpless.

That is the root of the general appeal of bondage for all submissive persons. Physical limitation can be a satisfyingly unambiguous experience of a top’s control.

The CB-6000 aside from the obvious purpose of male orgasm regulation is a bondage device, albeit a very specialized one. It is bondage a man can experience when away from a dominant, even in public without embarrassment. Instances of thwarted erections are frustrating yet joyous highpoints of his submission.

A male chastity device is a tangible symbol of the power exchange.

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Submissive straight men, by their very nature, desire and need to feel under the thumb ( – heel – ) of a dominant woman. To be subdued by her. Often – on some level – helpless.

That is the root of the general appeal of bondage for all submissive persons. Physical limitation can be a satisfyingly unambiguous experience of a top’s control.

The CB-6000 aside from the obvious purpose of male orgasm regulation is a bondage device, albeit a very specialized one. It is bondage a man can experience when away from a dominant, even in public without embarrassment. Instances of thwarted erections are frustrating yet joyous highpoints of his submission.

A male chastity device is a tangible symbol of the power exchange.

Originally posted 2010-12-31 15:25:13. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

(MyBlogLog shows this to be the most popular page on this site.)

Ideally a female supremacist wife who keeps your cock locked up in a CB6000 when is isn’t ruining your wife.

That is what the recent Google search stats suggest many hoping to find here.

Ruined orgasms if I remember what I’ve read involve masturbation where the pressure of the hand is removed just prior to ejaculation diminishing the thrill. Sounds like an esoteric art to me but certainly deliciously cruel in intent. Though some may regard forced orgasmless ejaculation using a device like the Aneros prostate massage something nearly the same.

There’s also another kind of milking that is rather the opposite of the ruined orgasm. Forcing a man to masturbate repeatedly – or perhaps masturbating him – until his penis begins to hurt. Another interesting form of erotic torment.

Oh, the mighty phallus: please it, confine it, hurt it – funny how it is so often the center of attention.

You might want to look at my summary or orgasm ruination and milking kRuined Orgasms Theory & Practice

Originally posted 2008-05-14 14:00:32. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

I got this comment* on one of my blogs this morning:

Try What My Mistress Girlfriend uses instead of a Penis Plug which has to be taken out at some point. A catheter tube that has a Locking Plug on the end. For days She makes me Hold my Pee. then on my knees with my hands on my nipples She makes me pinch and twist them till I have forgotten the pain in my belly before She unlocks the p-lug and lets me pee My Chastity tube hole is where the plug fits in the Catheter. She tried a Penis Plug but decided it could not stay in long enough.

He also posted this:

Chastity has me semi Castrated and Hormones finished the job. I can not cum nor have any kind of sex but my Girlfriend fucks who she wants. My dick no longer is free it is locked in Chastity for 12 years now. My Girlfriend fed me Hormones for 7n years now I am a Castrated by Chastity and Chemical Sissy now and I have began to like being a girl since 4 years ago. Is there no hope for me? Am I lost to Her Devious whims forever ? I find myself wanting Her lovers to want to Fuck me and She just laughs at me as She makes me watch them fuck Her. She Cold Milks me in front of Her lovers to show them the Control She has taken over me. I can not even feel the cum come out of me because everything is frozen numb. When I cry because of the utter Humiliation of Being Milked with a group of men watching She Whips me all over and lets them kick me. She says She picked me because She saw She Could Control me in no time and force me to be what She wanted me to be. I was raised to never hit a Woman ,and She took advantage of that from the start. She keeps me in an Iron Chastity Belt that needs four keys and a Combination lock. I sleep naked except for the Chastity In a Standing position with my hands chained above my head in a Standing Birdcage made for me. When my Chastity is off my hands are tied and a Blindfold is locked on me. I have never seen my Genitals in 12 years. that is why I say I am Castrated.

I get demented comments from guys all the time. Particularly the Female Supremacist Sissy Sluts. Imagine what violent, volcanic sexual frustration they must feel to go about posting their fantasies as their life history.

( * Spelling corrected.)

Originally posted 2009-01-16 06:48:18. Republished by Blog Post Promoter