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Gender Swap or Reversal

Eudaemonia — Thu, 03 May 2012 08:03:07 +0000

Gender swap: she seems amused but he seems peeved.

I’ve often thought of what a challenge – a horrific shock really – it would be for someone who takes some of the female led relationship rhetoric too seriously to awake one morning and discover that he and his Mistress Wife had swapped genders or bodies and he had become she.

Some of the dominant woman I know would – after the startlement faded – become dominant men. But the submissive guys, their brains would probably be permanently fried.

Ah …

Originally posted 2009-02-09 19:35:59. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Unnatural Desires

Eudaemonia — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 04:26:29 +0000

I don’t know if she’s feminizing the guy or it is just an old transvestism novel. Use your imagination and make it what you want it to be.

Originally posted 2009-01-20 13:03:21. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Feminization

Eudaemonia — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 23:48:47 +0000

Feminization (or Sissyfication): some men just wear a bit of female lingerie. At the other end men dress as “sissy maids” and perform all the household tasks while so dressed. This form of role reversal is thought to focus a man on submission. For men with suppressed gender and sexual orientation issues it is probably therapeutic.

Originally posted 2007-07-14 23:17:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Advice for a Sissy

Eudaemonia — Mon, 05 Sep 2011 15:56:09 +0000

Frederique, French Sissyboy

A young man asked for advice about his sexuality and submissiveness. This was my response:

To a Bisexual, Submissive, Feminine Boy

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Sitting to Urinate

Eudaemonia — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 12:47:42 +0000

I always find some of this alien and baffling, hence I’m limited to the words of others.

My Mistress/Wife and I have been involved in D/s for several years now, mostly as play, but with time, it is becoming more of a lifestyle for us. For some time now I have been kept in panties. It started as part of the game. Every now and then I was told to wear a pair of lacy panties to work. As my panties collection grew my male underwear was eventually taken away.

I had to make all my own purchases, sometimes with Mistress, sometimes when she watched from a couple aisles away. This led to occasional wearing of nighties around the house, picked out for me by Mistress. I’m now in nighties nearly all the time. Most recently we went shopping and Mistress chose a ladies tank top and pair of ladies casual shorts. I now wear these out in the yard on household errands and go to the door in them when pizza is delivered, etc.

None of these acts has made me feel feminine. It’s a sign of my submission to Mistress, as her slave. Even being denied penetration sex and servicing her orally while being called her “little bitch” is more submission, as a submissive male.

Our latest expansion of our lifestyle has brought a change though. Due to my failure as her slave to stop my masturbation, I was finally locked in a chastity device. Again, we’ve moved farther into the lifestyle and I’ve noticed a big change in Mistress. We’ve gotten to this point with me “topping from the bottom”. She followed “suggestions” put forth by her slave and seldom led off any of the play sessions. That changed almost overnight, once the lock snapped shut on my genitals. She’s much more assertive and I’ve become more obedient and submissive.

Guess this ended up with a lot of history to get the point I want to post on feminization.

Due to the chastity device I now wear, I have to sit to pee. This, more than anything we’ve done over the years, has made me feel more feminine and able to start seeing things from a woman’s perspective. Even while released from my device for a while this weekend, I still sat when nature called.

Also, while at the movies this weekend I noticed all the women standing , packed together in the Ladies Room when someone went through the door. I can now related in a limited way, to the wait for a free stall, as opposed to a bunch of guys standing at a urinal.

Surprising, yet understandable. All the elaborate play of women’s clothes, shaving body hair, make-up, etc. yet, it’s one of nature’s most basic functions of relieving one’s bladder that’s brought out my feminine side.

Feminization Art

Originally posted 2010-08-13 10:30:45. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Female Led Bisexuality

Eudaemonia — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 10:53:29 +0000

Being forced to fellate another man is a common female led sex fantasy.

For men anyway. And a few women.

If nothing else it lets closeted bisexual men express their real, hidden sexuality.

Does forced cocksucking excite you? Repel you?

Originally posted 2008-05-06 21:30:37. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Sexual Guilt

Eudaemonia — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 19:16:53 +0000

Some Weird Sin

A woman writes an advice columnist asking:

Q: After 27 years of marriage and great sex, my husband still feels guilty after he orgasms. Why does he feel this way and is there anything I can do?

Her Husband Feels Guilty After Sex

She replies that the man may be suffering post-coital tristesse:

All well and good, but in another study they concluded that prolactin works like a thermostat to shut off our desire, our appetites, and therefore the exciting, revved-up drives that make us try to satisfy them. So you get dull as a worm and your spirit flees.

Most dishearteningly!

The more satisfying the sex with a woman, the duller you get.

I don’t recall having had a second of sexual guilt. Feelings of erotic sinfulness are wholly alien to me. But I gather that this post-orgasmic guilt is more common than I could have ever suspected.

A fair amount of what some submissive men want strikes me as being rooted in guilt. Though shame might be the most apt word. And it surely would fuel feelings of ‘malesub’ inferiority, female superiority.

I don’t draw any conclusions from this. Yet.

Originally posted 2009-04-09 13:40:50. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Forced Feminization

Eudaemonia — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 07:50:10 +0000

Some people who want to be turned into sissies want someone to force them to be sissyfied. To force them to do what they want to do. But how to achieve such contradiction?

There’s always blackmail:

I share your interest in forced feminization and I have to say that to truly force someone to do something he or she doesn’t want to is probably beyond the scope of bdsm or at least most bdsm relationships.

Someone suggested taking poloroids of you all dressed up. However unless she would actually show them around and you are truly frightened of her doing so, pictures don’t sound like much of a threat.

There’s always reality:

A friend and I played with this once. We went to the mall, picked out a pair of panties for him, Had him change in the men’s room there and wandered around the mall for a while. It was really intense for him – he’d never done such a thing before. He was embarrassed and self-conscious, seriously blushing and this isn’t the kind of guy who blushes. And hard as a rock the whole time.

On the other end of my experience is the guy who wanted me to throw out all of his male things and make him live as a woman. The twist there, I thought, was that he was trying to force me to feminize him. That was weird. Not my kink.

I also met someone who said he was into forced fem, but on talking to him, there was nothing “forced” about what he wanted, but that’s the only name that fit most of his kink. He wanted to be the femsub of a femdom.

Forced feminization questions

Originally posted 2009-02-28 10:55:24. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Homophobia and Male Submission

Eudaemonia — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 06:31:18 +0000

Not a Real Man

People share the damnest feelings on some of my sites – don’t read that as mocking the poor soul who wrote:

I am homosexually inclined to ever be a real man.the sight of the female genitalia,to be polite,have always troubled me,as the sight of the naked female,generally.the male nude though causes great eroticism in me.i wish to be punished by a lady,for my ladies toilet voyeurism.this was my revenge on those girls who had originally treated me cruelly.at a time,when I did not realize how gay I could be.in other words,when I thought I could still be a real man.those young ladies,soon showed and told me otherwise,of course.i wish also to be sodomized by a lady.as I feel the need to be humiliated for failing to be a real man.and homosexually I have not yet reached the stage when I would bend to another male.

I know there are men who have a fetish of being told they are gay. A fair portion of online ProDommes address their fans as fags to feed this kink. Including one that I admire. I flinch, bite my teeth and skip it.

Now the fellow above is probably bisexual and unable to cope with the same sex portion of his sexuality. Is attraction to men makes him feel guilty and as he says “inferior.”

This reinforcement of the dirty, dark cliché that gay males are somehow less manly than the heterosexual variety disturbs me deeply. The mainstreaming of queer folk proceeds apace. But it will be a very long time – if ever – before it is say for many gay youths to be open about their sexuality.

So, while I’ll not condemn any man’s sexuality – you can’t control these things – submissive male homophobia saddens me profoundly.

Originally posted 2009-06-18 21:42:53. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Public Slut

Eudaemonia — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 04:37:24 +0000

You’ve met the Domme of your dreams. Your days with her are satisfying. Your nights drenched in sensual sadomasochistic thrills.

Then comes the evening when she tells you that you will dress up like a girl, go to a bar with her and let the world behold you as a female slut.

Are you thrilled? Or appalled?

Do you comply or demur?

If your refusal is met with the warning that not going out en femme means she’ll never see you again do you start shaving your legs or do you walk out?

Originally posted 2008-03-20 09:00:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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