Gender swap: she seems amused but he seems peeved.

I’ve often thought of what a challenge – a horrific shock really – it would be for someone who takes some of the female led relationship rhetoric too seriously to awake one morning and discover that he and his Mistress Wife had swapped genders or bodies and he had become she.

Some of the dominant woman I know would – after the startlement faded – become dominant men. But the submissive guys, their brains would probably be permanently fried.

Ah …

Originally posted 2009-02-09 19:35:59. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

I don’t know if she’s feminizing the guy or it is just an old transvestism novel. Use your imagination and make it what you want it to be.

Originally posted 2009-01-20 13:03:21. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Feminization (or Sissyfication): some men just wear a bit of female lingerie. At the other end men dress as “sissy maids” and perform all the household tasks while so dressed. This form of role reversal is thought to focus a man on submission. For men with suppressed gender and sexual orientation issues it is probably therapeutic.

Originally posted 2007-07-14 23:17:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

I always find some of this alien and baffling, hence I’m limited to the words of others.

My Mistress/Wife and I have been involved in D/s for several years now, mostly as play, but with time, it is becoming more of a lifestyle for us. For some time now I have been kept in panties. It started as part of the game. Every now and then I was told to wear a pair of lacy panties to work. As my panties collection grew my male underwear was eventually taken away.

I had to make all my own purchases, sometimes with Mistress, sometimes when she watched from a couple aisles away. This led to occasional wearing of nighties around the house, picked out for me by Mistress. I’m now in nighties nearly all the time. Most recently we went shopping and Mistress chose a ladies tank top and pair of ladies casual shorts. I now wear these out in the yard on household errands and go to the door in them when pizza is delivered, etc.

None of these acts has made me feel feminine. It’s a sign of my submission to Mistress, as her slave. Even being denied penetration sex and servicing her orally while being called her “little bitch” is more submission, as a submissive male.

Our latest expansion of our lifestyle has brought a change though. Due to my failure as her slave to stop my masturbation, I was finally locked in a chastity device. Again, we’ve moved farther into the lifestyle and I’ve noticed a big change in Mistress. We’ve gotten to this point with me “topping from the bottom”. She followed “suggestions” put forth by her slave and seldom led off any of the play sessions. That changed almost overnight, once the lock snapped shut on my genitals. She’s much more assertive and I’ve become more obedient and submissive.

Guess this ended up with a lot of history to get the point I want to post on feminization.

Due to the chastity device I now wear, I have to sit to pee. This, more than anything we’ve done over the years, has made me feel more feminine and able to start seeing things from a woman’s perspective. Even while released from my device for a while this weekend, I still sat when nature called.

Also, while at the movies this weekend I noticed all the women standing , packed together in the Ladies Room when someone went through the door. I can now related in a limited way, to the wait for a free stall, as opposed to a bunch of guys standing at a urinal.

Surprising, yet understandable. All the elaborate play of women’s clothes, shaving body hair, make-up, etc. yet, it’s one of nature’s most basic functions of relieving one’s bladder that’s brought out my feminine side.

Feminization Art

Originally posted 2010-08-13 10:30:45. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Being forced to fellate another man is a common female led sex fantasy.

For men anyway. And a few women.

If nothing else it lets closeted bisexual men express their real, hidden sexuality.

Does forced cocksucking excite you? Repel you?

Originally posted 2008-05-06 21:30:37. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Some people who want to be turned into sissies want someone to force them to be sissyfied. To force them to do what they want to do. But how to achieve such contradiction?

There’s always blackmail:

I share your interest in forced feminization and I have to say that to truly force someone to do something he or she doesn’t want to is probably beyond the scope of bdsm or at least most bdsm relationships.

Someone suggested taking poloroids of you all dressed up. However unless she would actually show them around and you are truly frightened of her doing so, pictures don’t sound like much of a threat.

There’s always reality:

A friend and I played with this once. We went to the mall, picked out a pair of panties for him, Had him change in the men’s room there and wandered around the mall for a while. It was really intense for him – he’d never done such a thing before. He was embarrassed and self-conscious, seriously blushing and this isn’t the kind of guy who blushes. And hard as a rock the whole time.

On the other end of my experience is the guy who wanted me to throw out all of his male things and make him live as a woman. The twist there, I thought, was that he was trying to force me to feminize him. That was weird. Not my kink.

I also met someone who said he was into forced fem, but on talking to him, there was nothing “forced” about what he wanted, but that’s the only name that fit most of his kink. He wanted to be the femsub of a femdom.

Forced feminization questions

Originally posted 2009-02-28 10:55:24. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

You’ve met the Domme of your dreams. Your days with her are satisfying. Your nights drenched in sensual sadomasochistic thrills.

Then comes the evening when she tells you that you will dress up like a girl, go to a bar with her and let the world behold you as a female slut.

Are you thrilled? Or appalled?

Do you comply or demur?

If your refusal is met with the warning that not going out en femme means she’ll never see you again do you start shaving your legs or do you walk out?

Originally posted 2008-03-20 09:00:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter