Female dominance, male submission without the stereotypes
Feminization (or Sissyfication): some men just wear a bit of female lingerie. At the other end men dress as “sissy maids” and perform all the household tasks while so dressed. This form of role reversal is thought to focus a man on submission. For men with suppressed gender and sexual orientation issues it is probably therapeutic.
Originally posted 2007-07-14 23:17:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Frederique, French Sissyboy
A young man asked for advice about his sexuality and submissiveness. This was my response:
To a Bisexual, Submissive, Feminine Boy
I always find some of this alien and baffling, hence I’m limited to the words of others.
My Mistress/Wife and I have been involved in D/s for several years now, mostly as play, but with time, it is becoming more of a lifestyle for us. For some time now I have been kept in panties. It started as part of the game. Every now and then I was told to wear a pair of lacy panties to work. As my panties collection grew my male underwear was eventually taken away.
I had to make all my own purchases, sometimes with Mistress, sometimes when she watched from a couple aisles away. This led to occasional wearing of nighties around the house, picked out for me by Mistress. I’m now in nighties nearly all the time. Most recently we went shopping and Mistress chose a ladies tank top and pair of ladies casual shorts. I now wear these out in the yard on household errands and go to the door in them when pizza is delivered, etc.
None of these acts has made me feel feminine. It’s a sign of my submission to Mistress, as her slave. Even being denied penetration sex and servicing her orally while being called her “little bitch” is more submission, as a submissive male.
Our latest expansion of our lifestyle has brought a change though. Due to my failure as her slave to stop my masturbation, I was finally locked in a chastity device. Again, we’ve moved farther into the lifestyle and I’ve noticed a big change in Mistress. We’ve gotten to this point with me “topping from the bottom”. She followed “suggestions” put forth by her slave and seldom led off any of the play sessions. That changed almost overnight, once the lock snapped shut on my genitals. She’s much more assertive and I’ve become more obedient and submissive.
Guess this ended up with a lot of history to get the point I want to post on feminization.
Due to the chastity device I now wear, I have to sit to pee. This, more than anything we’ve done over the years, has made me feel more feminine and able to start seeing things from a woman’s perspective. Even while released from my device for a while this weekend, I still sat when nature called.
Also, while at the movies this weekend I noticed all the women standing , packed together in the Ladies Room when someone went through the door. I can now related in a limited way, to the wait for a free stall, as opposed to a bunch of guys standing at a urinal.
Surprising, yet understandable. All the elaborate play of women’s clothes, shaving body hair, make-up, etc. yet, it’s one of nature’s most basic functions of relieving one’s bladder that’s brought out my feminine side.
Originally posted 2010-08-13 10:30:45. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Being forced to fellate another man is a common female led sex fantasy.
For men anyway. And a few women.
If nothing else it lets closeted bisexual men express their real, hidden sexuality.
Does forced cocksucking excite you? Repel you?
Originally posted 2008-05-06 21:30:37. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Some Weird Sin
A woman writes an advice columnist asking:
Q: After 27 years of marriage and great sex, my husband still feels guilty after he orgasms. Why does he feel this way and is there anything I can do?
Her Husband Feels Guilty After Sex
She replies that the man may be suffering post-coital tristesse:
All well and good, but in another study they concluded that prolactin works like a thermostat to shut off our desire, our appetites, and therefore the exciting, revved-up drives that make us try to satisfy them. So you get dull as a worm and your spirit flees.
Most dishearteningly!
The more satisfying the sex with a woman, the duller you get.
I don’t recall having had a second of sexual guilt. Feelings of erotic sinfulness are wholly alien to me. But I gather that this post-orgasmic guilt is more common than I could have ever suspected.
A fair amount of what some submissive men want strikes me as being rooted in guilt. Though shame might be the most apt word. And it surely would fuel feelings of ‘malesub’ inferiority, female superiority.
I don’t draw any conclusions from this. Yet.
Originally posted 2009-04-09 13:40:50. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Some people who want to be turned into sissies want someone to force them to be sissyfied. To force them to do what they want to do. But how to achieve such contradiction?
There’s always blackmail:
I share your interest in forced feminization and I have to say that to truly force someone to do something he or she doesn’t want to is probably beyond the scope of bdsm or at least most bdsm relationships.
Someone suggested taking poloroids of you all dressed up. However unless she would actually show them around and you are truly frightened of her doing so, pictures don’t sound like much of a threat.
There’s always reality:
A friend and I played with this once. We went to the mall, picked out a pair of panties for him, Had him change in the men’s room there and wandered around the mall for a while. It was really intense for him – he’d never done such a thing before. He was embarrassed and self-conscious, seriously blushing and this isn’t the kind of guy who blushes. And hard as a rock the whole time.
On the other end of my experience is the guy who wanted me to throw out all of his male things and make him live as a woman. The twist there, I thought, was that he was trying to force me to feminize him. That was weird. Not my kink.
I also met someone who said he was into forced fem, but on talking to him, there was nothing “forced” about what he wanted, but that’s the only name that fit most of his kink. He wanted to be the femsub of a femdom.
Originally posted 2009-02-28 10:55:24. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Not a Real Man
People share the damnest feelings on some of my sites – don’t read that as mocking the poor soul who wrote:
I am homosexually inclined to ever be a real man.the sight of the female genitalia,to be polite,have always troubled me,as the sight of the naked female,generally.the male nude though causes great eroticism in me.i wish to be punished by a lady,for my ladies toilet voyeurism.this was my revenge on those girls who had originally treated me cruelly.at a time,when I did not realize how gay I could be.in other words,when I thought I could still be a real man.those young ladies,soon showed and told me otherwise,of course.i wish also to be sodomized by a lady.as I feel the need to be humiliated for failing to be a real man.and homosexually I have not yet reached the stage when I would bend to another male.
I know there are men who have a fetish of being told they are gay. A fair portion of online ProDommes address their fans as fags to feed this kink. Including one that I admire. I flinch, bite my teeth and skip it.
Now the fellow above is probably bisexual and unable to cope with the same sex portion of his sexuality. Is attraction to men makes him feel guilty and as he says “inferior.”
This reinforcement of the dirty, dark cliché that gay males are somehow less manly than the heterosexual variety disturbs me deeply. The mainstreaming of queer folk proceeds apace. But it will be a very long time – if ever – before it is say for many gay youths to be open about their sexuality.
So, while I’ll not condemn any man’s sexuality – you can’t control these things – submissive male homophobia saddens me profoundly.
Originally posted 2009-06-18 21:42:53. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
You’ve met the Domme of your dreams. Your days with her are satisfying. Your nights drenched in sensual sadomasochistic thrills.
Then comes the evening when she tells you that you will dress up like a girl, go to a bar with her and let the world behold you as a female slut.
Are you thrilled? Or appalled?
Do you comply or demur?
If your refusal is met with the warning that not going out en femme means she’ll never see you again do you start shaving your legs or do you walk out?
Originally posted 2008-03-20 09:00:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Do you think of masculinity as bad: immoral, distasteful, inferior – whatever?
Or as one of the qualities with which you attract women. An attribute that is a proper complement for her femininity?
Or is it just simply something normal and conventional but of no great import.
Manliness: shameful, wonderful, unimportant?
Originally posted 2008-03-12 12:00:47. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
By Gary
I have only gotten into a fight with a Woman one time, that was my ex-Wife, Christina, during our dating and courtship period, before She took me in marriage, and before I knew my place like I should have. I learned my lesson once and for all.
It was right after She had me move in with Her, and She introduced Her strap-on into our relationship for the first time, informing me that She was going to use it to have Her way with me. I protested, and my insubordinate attitude understandably infuriated Her. We got into a heated quarrel over my misguided attempt to refuse Her strap-on. The argument escalated into a fight, and frankly, She stomped my manly little ass and mopped the floor with me.
That fight ended with me sitting on the floor reduced to tearful manhood, and rubbing my aching balls. Meanwhile, She stood over me with Her Hands on Her Hips, telling me exactly how things were going to be. Needless to say, I was in a much more humble attitude at that point, and had become a much better listener. I timidly agreed to Her terms and conditions, then She said firmly, “Fine then,” and pointing the way, ordered me with “Now get your pussywhipped little ass in the bed and keep your fucking mouth shut.”
I meekly obeyed, then She demanded, “Now, are you man enough to know your place and do as you’re told?” My quivering reply was, “Yes, Honey.”
Then, She asked sternly, “Are you man enough to take my Lady Dick up your sissy ass now?”
I said, fearful of angering Her again, “Yes, Honey, I’ll do whatever You say.”
She said, “Damn right you will, because now you know who wears the pants in this relationship, don’t you?”
With trembling voice I answered, “Yes, Honey, You do, Your are the Boss, and Your rule the roost, and I will do as You say.”
She said, “Good, now that we understand each other,” then She proceeded with rubber glove to lube my wimp ass, and mounted me, humping and pumping my now forever submissive behind to Her satisfaction, and did so whenever She wished throughout the balance of our relationship and 14 year marriage.
There was never any doubt She was the Head of the house in our marriage, and I was Her properly submissive and obedient husband.
Originally posted 2009-11-30 03:25:20. Republished by Blog Post Promoter