The reader of one of my other blogs wrote to share the one true way of practicing cuckoldry. I’d have to credit him with coming up with some of the silliest and most foolish Femdom nonsense I’ve ever read.

The Mistress-Wife would stop taking birth control medication. Since she is continually serviced by a series of bulls the result would serial pregnancy.

The goal of this scenario is to force the submissive husband to support children that he didn’t sire and to drive him into poverty. The man’s wacked-out vision neglects to consider that the woman may not want perpetual pregnancy or poverty.

Originally posted 2009-02-02 15:30:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

The first femdom novel, Venus in Furs featured cuckoldry.

For many men being cuckolded is the supreme submissive fantasy. But some of those who get to live it divorce their wives. Or their wives leave them.

If the lore that women are better and finer creatures is it any surprise that many would have no desire to pursue this?

The trauma is too awful.

How do you feel about female led infidelity?

Originally posted 2008-05-06 19:42:20. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

(Note: Over the years I’ve heard from men desperate to the point of craziness to be cuckolded. I’m very skeptical because I don’t think many relationships can really handle the unique stresses. But if this is either your need or fantasy you should read the words of a woman who has achieved this with the man she married. Read the excerpts, buy the book. – I don’t get two cents out of this.)

Cuckold Letters by Vanessa Chaland: A collection of e-mails exchanged with a man who would become my cuckold husband. My interest in a twisted fantasy becomes a journey to becoming a dominant wife.

{Excerpt}…You don’t have to think about what to say and do and feel, I’ve decided for you. M is going to do me with that perfect rod for so long, and you know I will be sore and red and swollen. Your mouth will feel so soft and nice on my me after a good lay by such a man. Also, when his potent sperm is spilled across me, you’ll have little time to be sure that M’s seed doesn’t gain access to me. His creamy sperm mustn’t reach my pussy, for it would surely impregnate me. We can’t have that….. You have to clean it up……..

{Excerpt}…I really don’t see what the problem could be. You want my lover to keep coming and enjoying himself, right? I want to make myself look pretty for my new lover, and keep him coming back to stuff his HUGE self into me.

It’s no different than when I do anything else for him before a date. I shower for him. I shave my legs, for him. I do a bit more with my hair…..for him. It’s all for a purpose. The more I turn on my lover, the more excited he gets, ultimately, the more mess for you to deal with.

I enjoy humiliating you cocky, and so the more sperm milked from my lovers means all the more time I will have to treat you like the cuckold husband you are. All giving me pleasure at your expense. So, you have to admit, it’s all done for you too. You should be happy I trimmed my hair for him. You should be happy I will give you the opportunity to experience my me with all 5 of your senses, up close, after being filled by a superior man. Tonight, you will get that privilege again. …

{Excerpt}…It’s only fair that I inform you of what I expect from you during the wedding and the honeymoon, because I do have specific plans, and instructions for you. All of this is just to establish firmly from the start what your role is as my husband, my faithful cuckold. To prepare for our honeymoon, you will be expected to make the arrangements. You will book us for a hotel suite, you know, where we occupy 2 rooms, and there is a door connecting the 2 rooms inside. You will need to book this kind of room so that I can continue cuckolding you when I like throughout our honeymoon.

Cuckold Letters (Physical book)

Cuckold Letters (E-book – you can download Kindle software for your PC or smartphone.)

Anneli Rufus writes:

It’s S&M for Ph.D.s: Cuckolding, in which men watch their wives have sex with other guys, is catching on among people with high IQs who revel in the psychological agony.

The Daily Beast: The Intellectual Sex Fetish

A cuckold by choice interviewed makes an unlikely claim:

Cuckoldry is “truly intellectual in its enterprise because it replaces sexual touch with humiliation and emotional pain, both of which are psychological.”

This reminds me of the ProDomme’s claim that their customers are all rich and powerful.

I’m an emotional masochist myself. It isn’t because I’m a bright guy.

Anyone surveying the fetish dating and personal ads sites sees plenty of dimwits and dunces just begging to be humiliated.

Saying cuckoldry is for smart men is special pleading.

Originally posted 2010-08-05 12:37:02. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Having been wholly biased in favor of romantic monogamy when I first heard of cuckoldry as a sexual fetish I was repulsed. What an unloving relationship (so it seemed).

Since then I’ve come to understand that for a very, very tiny portion of the population cuckoldry is a fetish that works and does not forbid a happy and romantic marriage.

Still most men online are just lying when they claim their wife cuckolds them. (Always with men with bulging muscles and huge cocks. Nobody says they’ve been cuckolded by a guy who looks like he’s Herb from Accounting.) No kink leads to more sexual fantasy presented as fact.

I wonder if the men with the hopeless cuckold fixation didn’t somehow eroticize fears of being abandoned by their mother when they were very little. There’s no doubt that we do eroticize seemingly surprising acts when very young. And even if this is true for some men that doesn’t mean it applies to all (would be) cuckolds.

Cuckold fantasists are often female supremacists. Probably because their desire violates so many social norms they unconsciously feel compelled to justify it with bad anthropology and nutty social theorizing.

Hmm?

Originally posted 2009-03-03 07:54:03. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Wannabe Cuckold’s Unhappy Wife

I’m skeptical of many tales of cuckoldry that appear online. I know people who practice cuckoldry happily and successfully. But I think most of what men post on the web is fiction masquerading as fact.

Cuckoldry is one of the very few fetishes that I think most people shouldn’t try to actualize. As tantalizing as the fantasy may be for you the consequences could destroy your romantic relationship.

This was left a comment on Femdom Romance:

My husband is into Cuckold and I’m not, though I’ve been pretending that I have been for the last 6 years, we’ve been together 8 years. I make up stories and he believes them, well he did until a pic that I faked was awful quality and he realised I got it from the net. Anyway now he says the next time has to be real and I can’t do it! How can I tell him? I’ve kept this secret so long and it’s going to crush him.

What a kind woman. What a selfish husband.

Distinctions between men who are submissive and those who are mostly or only fetishists are usually made without sufficient subtlety. Despite the common rhetoric, being cuckolded isn’t submission so much as a humiliation fetish. It is asking for emotional pain. Having my own share of emotional masochism I don’t despise this.

Wanting so badly to be hurt in a special way this man is willing to hurt a woman who loves him. The failing isn’t one particularly pertaining to female led relationships. But simply human decency.

She shouldn’t feel guilty. If he can’t curb his desires it is hard to see that she should do anything except leave him.